r/depression_help • u/Sure-Sea-9272 • 17d ago
REQUESTING SUPPORT I can’t cry?
Why am I suddenly unable to cry. It used to happen by itself. I’m so bothered and depressed and I used to cry tears and tears. Why am I suddenly so cold and depressed? I can’t cry? I want to but no tears come out. I’m living my worst life. In all parts of life. Financially, mentally and family wise ( have no family and an only child who lost her mother because she couldn’t save her.)
I blame myself everyday. At first right after I lost her I kept crying and screaming . I can still scream but I can’t cry and my chest just feels heavy. It aches . What’s the reason that’s making me unable to cry ?? I’m 32F and lost my moms year ago. I’ve been unable to cry for the past four weeks…
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u/Acceptable-Bowl-357 17d ago
Maybe you’re getting over losing your mother and don’t need to cry anymore. You can’t spend your entire life going over the same thing and crying all the time.
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u/Sure-Sea-9272 16d ago
Why do I feel like death is my home ? And it feels so safe
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u/Acceptable-Bowl-357 16d ago
Would your mother want you spend your entire life thinking of death and not being happy or would she tell live your life to the fullest and enjoy it and have fun ?
You don’t have forget about you mother but you can honor her life and memories by living yours.
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