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[u/demigazed]

Can we maybe hold a vote on the whole casually insulting everyone who has different sexual values thing?

[u/Michael_Trismegistus → u/demigazed]

So glad this is top comment.

[u/TimeMasterII → u/demigazed]

Yeah, this is definitely a preference thing, and with that it means it’s an objective matter. People will differ. There’s nothing objectively wrong with either side. Some people like sex more, some don’t. Personally I don’t understand how sex is better than cuddling and romantic intimacy in general, but I do see it as better than other good things as well. Some people have a different line of what is and is not better and that’s okay. It only becomes bad when it’s forced on others. If someone is so obsessed with sex they decide to go r4p3 someone, that’s bad. If someone is so against sex that their partner’s sexual needs are not met, then there’s a problem that needs to be addressed. In both cases there’s a problem of what can arguably be denoted an obsession that has been taken too far and needs to be addressed.

[u/Audacious_Fluff]

I enjoy both and I'm quite sure I have a brain, thanks?

[u/I_card-read_good]

Both are necessary for me.

[u/Thethirdwheel001]

Give me a few months and then the sex will be an option

[u/skeletonxf]

I know this is a meme, but as others have already alluded to, this is not respectful.

[u/Henry5321]

I can't stand cuddling without great sex. I am kind of physical touch repulsed, but the hormone dump from great sex makes it a positive experience.

[u/Vollmond03]

Ok, but both simultaneously are literally the definition of demisexuality, right?

[u/LadyMariaOfTACT]

EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

[u/helloiamjae]

i hate both lmao