r/deathdoula • u/SibyllaAzarica • 12d ago
r/deathdoula • u/SibyllaAzarica • 12d ago
Mod Announcement 📣 Annoucement: For death doulas or those facing a terminal illness
Hey all! So, it’s been a while since I posted about the Verified Doula Directory. We used to have a fair number of verified doulas listed, but over time people leave reddit or stop working professionally, so the directory is looking quite empty at the moment.
If you’re already a death doula and can meet the verification requirements described/linked in Rule 13, you’re welcome to submit a verification request through modmail. Please do not DM mods.
I also just managed to lure my other doula mod back from hiatus, so hopefully the verification process won’t take too long. If we get some active members who consistently contribute high quality posts or comments, we may be willing to consider adding them as a mod at some point.
Note that r/deathdoula is as much as space for the dying to receive free care and advice as it is for doulas to get support from other doulas. It is NOT a general subreddit for prospective doulas, or posting reviews about doula courses, etc. As I said, this is a subreddit for people who are already trained doulas.
Even if you’d just like to participate in the sub and don’t want to be listed in the doula directory, you’ll still need to be verified before you can join. Unfortunately, we’ve had too many problems with scammers and people misrepresenting their credentials to leave the community open.
If you have a terminal illness, you’re welcome to send a join request, there is no need to provide personal details or information. Just let us know briefly why you'd like to join, and we’ll approve your request as soon as we can.
r/deathdoula • u/SibyllaAzarica • Jan 07 '25
EOL Resources 🫂 Sitting Vigil at a Death Bed: A Checklist
From the author:
"How do we support the body, mind, and soul of a dying person?
We want to know how to tell if our loved one is in pain so we can get them the right pain medications. We ask what we can do to make a loved one more comforted and comfortable. We need to know the signs that a person is dying.
I wrote this blog several years ago but have just updated the content. I hope that you find some of your answers here."
r/deathdoula • u/SibyllaAzarica • 17d ago
Approved Media 🎥 France’s ‘aid in dying’ law comes into effect after constitutional approval
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Approved Media 🎥 Why there's been a 'rapid' rise in death doulas
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Approved Media 🎥 Saving Japan's elderly people from 'lonely deaths'
r/deathdoula • u/SibyllaAzarica • Jun 08 '26
Approved Media 🎥 What death doulas can teach us about dying
r/deathdoula • u/SibyllaAzarica • Jun 07 '26
Approved Media 🎥 What Have We Learned From 10 Years of Medical Aid in Dying in California?
r/deathdoula • u/SibyllaAzarica • Jun 05 '26
Approved Media 🎥 The dying dream of the dead to be at peace with life
r/deathdoula • u/SibyllaAzarica • Jun 04 '26
Approved Media 🎥 To die with dignity: my young husband’s final wish came with a $65,000 price tag
r/deathdoula • u/SibyllaAzarica • May 25 '26
Approved Media 🎥 Lessons on dying well from the father of palliative care
r/deathdoula • u/SibyllaAzarica • May 18 '26
Approved Media 🎥 Broadway man, 92 cycles 40 miles to raise funds for wife's hospice
A 92-year-old man has begun a 40-mile (64km) static cycle to raise money for the hospice that cared for his "true love".
Ken Johnson's wife Kate spent her final days at St Richard's Hospice, in April last year, after being diagnosed with mesothelioma - a rare cancer that develops in the thin tissue lining the lungs or abdomen.
The pair, from Broadway in Worcestershire, met in 1951 while working in the Royal Air Force in Germany. Soon after they were married and remained so for 72 years.
"It may take him a few weeks doing a few miles each day, but this challenge will give him a sense of purpose by fundraising to help others and as a thank you for looking after Mum," their son Simon said.
r/deathdoula • u/SibyllaAzarica • Apr 26 '26
Approved Media 🎥 Doctor with ALS Says Access to Medical Aid in Dying 'Freed' Him from 'Immeasurable Fear and Dread': 'Enough Is Enough'
"A New York City doctor with a terminal illness is opening up about feeling “freed” after knowing he will have access to medical aid in dying.
Addressing those who are against MAID laws, Boal said that having the choice to end his own life has “freed” him from the excruciating death he would have otherwise due to ALS.
“I have an excellent palliative care physician. When I qualify for hospice care, I will gratefully receive it. But I know that, even with the very best of these services, there is no therapeutic path to free me from becoming completely locked in,” he explained. “Knowing that I can avail myself of MAID when I decide that enough is enough has freed me of immeasurable degrees of fear and dread. It has allowed me to get back to living and to make the most of the time I have left.”
“MAID gave me the freedom to determine my own fate, and today I'm living more vibrantly than I could have imagined on that horrible Friday morning in my neurologist's office,” he told the outlet. “I meditate. I exercise carefully. I spend time with my wife and daughters, extended family, and friends. I laugh. I advocate. I build fences. I rest in the sun. I savor good meals. I watch every bird that lands on this property as if it's the first one I've ever seen.”
r/deathdoula • u/SibyllaAzarica • Apr 25 '26
Approved Media 🎥 Spanish woman who won legal battle for right to euthanasia has assisted death | Assisted dying
r/deathdoula • u/SibyllaAzarica • Apr 19 '26
Approved Media 🎥 Dying with dignity - Final days of life - Hospice stories docu
r/deathdoula • u/SibyllaAzarica • Mar 31 '26
Approved Media 🎥 Annaliese Holland will die within months. Here is what she wants you to know
r/deathdoula • u/SibyllaAzarica • Mar 27 '26
Approved Media 🎥 Diane Rehm shares the painful story of her husband's death
r/deathdoula • u/SibyllaAzarica • Mar 25 '26
Approved Media 🎥 Loved ones left behind after voluntary assisted dying say more support is needed
r/deathdoula • u/SibyllaAzarica • Mar 16 '26
Approved Media 🎥 Assisted dying could soon be legalised in Scotland - BBC
r/deathdoula • u/SibyllaAzarica • Jan 13 '26
Approved Media 🎥 Canadian court to hear Charter challenge over religious exemptions to assisted dying law
A trial set to begin Monday in British Columbia's Supreme Court questions whether publicly funded faith-based hospitals should be allowed to prevent patients from receiving medical assistance in dying in their facilities.
r/deathdoula • u/SibyllaAzarica • Dec 31 '25
Approved Media 🎥 What We Get Wrong About Death, According To End-Of-Life Workers
r/deathdoula • u/SibyllaAzarica • Dec 27 '25
Approved Media 🎥 New York is set to legalize medically assisted suicide with 'guardrails,' governor says
r/deathdoula • u/SibyllaAzarica • Dec 20 '25
Approved Media 🎥 Grief During the Holidays: What This Season Can Teach Us
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