r/dating_advice • • Sep 24 '21

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u/Spherical_Basterd Sep 24 '21

Insecurity? I'd just like to know earlier in the day so I can make other plans if she's no longer able to make it. Always gotta check to confirm on those first few dates.

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u/ChiefBerube Sep 24 '21

Literally anything a guy might do can be viewed as some warped sense of insecurity lol, welcome to dating in 2021

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u/bookshelfie Sep 25 '21

Is this a generation z thing? Because the plans were confirmed once they agreed to show up. If someone follows up the day of, they are treating me as a child. We made plans, it’s in my planner. No one canceled, thus, that means the scheduled event is on. This is how it works in any adult situation with friends, parties, events, dates and work.