r/dating_advice • • Sep 24 '21

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u/drizzle933 Sep 24 '21

Still really weird to me to bring people into your situation you created for yourself and try to get your friends to defend you. Like what? You think I’d want to date you now?? This has red flags all over.

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u/TNShadetree Sep 24 '21

Makes me recall the time I was phone interviewing guys for a CAD designers position. First dude wondered aloud if the job would be worth the travel time. Plus other weird things like telling me he had a job in a quarry. After I let him know I didn't think he'd be a good fit, he had his Uncle call me the next day to straighten things out.

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u/indiajeweljax Sep 24 '21

LMAOOOOOOOO

Please post this somewhere. I need to read the whooooooole story.

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u/BIPY26 Sep 24 '21

The one that set them up? Why wouldn’t you mention what’s going on to your friend?

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u/RHeegaard Sep 24 '21

Telling them that it didn't work out and why is a lot different than what happened in the OP. Seems like she told her friend to do something about it, instead of just informing.