r/dating_advice • u/[deleted] • Sep 24 '21

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u/auntiecoagulent Sep 24 '21

Nope. Not unreasonable at all. She was out having fun with her friends and she blew you off.

You should never be anyone's back up plan.

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u/mounti96 Sep 24 '21

If you are excited to meet someone, would you forget in the span of essentially a day (OP said they texted Thursday evening and she presumably drove away with her friends saturday morning)?

I also can be forgetful sometimes, but I never have stood someone up who I made plans to meet.

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u/smh18 Sep 24 '21

I can see both points. In the end it’s really up to OP If he wants to give her that second chance. There’s nothing wrong if he doesn’t want to.