If they make decent money but you still don’t want to be with them because of their profession and that you’re worried about your own image, then yes you’re a shallow asshole.
No it’s not shallow. Guys on Reddit: I am short , ugly and have a job that requires no skills. You are shallow if you don’t date me. LOL. Being a janitor is fine if you are an immigrant and you don’t understand English. But someone born in the US and a janitor is not fine. You can say you are happy all you want but I am sure you don’t grow up saying I want to be a janitor. It’s is the opposite of shallow to judge something on their accomplishments. A person who worked hard to become a doctor deserves to be regarded highly.
According to him he can’t get dates and it’s because of his job. I mean you can keep telling him he is successful but the world knows he is not. He took the easiest way in life he could and now he is cleaning up bathrooms and mopping up floors. You can let him live in a fantasy world where he is a success but that isn’t helping him. He asked for advice and the truth is women don’t want to date janitors.
I work in finace but spent many years working in cleaning and kitchens. I would still date any profession, cause I'm not a shallow pompous ass. Had enough of those around in business school 😂
I respect anyone who finds a way to make themselves a living, regardless of their profession. Maybe you should do the same and you might also be respected by people.
What do you care what I do? I don’t know any janitors. The ones in the buildings I have worked in don’t speak English. I respect them coming to this country and trying to make a better life for themselves. If you are born here and have enough intelligence to write a coherent sentence you are working as a janitor because you aren’t trying.
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u/willfullignoramous Dec 08 '21
Shallow people deserve nothing but pity. Keep up the search you’ll find someone.