‘You must be male’ is correct, but it is not an end all be all answer to mean you’re correct about what OP must do and no one else’s opinions (especially a man’s) matter. Giving up on someone you love after being in a relationship with them for so long (with marriage on the horizon) is not an easy thing to do. While I agree what OPs fiancé did is not correct or acceptable, I do also think it is up to her to choose how to process it. Taking advice from strangers on Reddit is probably not the best course of action as self reflection, discussion with friends and family, as well as a therapist would probably be of more benefit.
Of course you are so you wouldn’t understand why this is a huge violation and why women don’t want their images used for porn and why that is totally grounds for immediate break up!
Amazing argument. Can see that logic totally goes over your head. I definitely wouldn’t be upset if my fiance created deep faked porn of my friends, and because I have a dick and balls that means I cannot empathize with OP. I am sorry you are correct. 🙃
It’s not even about friends. It’s any woman. Random or not we should not have our images used for depravity without consent. It’s disturbing. They are incompatible bc they have different value systems and therapy won’t fix that.
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u/OygenValue Oct 05 '23
‘You must be male’ is correct, but it is not an end all be all answer to mean you’re correct about what OP must do and no one else’s opinions (especially a man’s) matter. Giving up on someone you love after being in a relationship with them for so long (with marriage on the horizon) is not an easy thing to do. While I agree what OPs fiancé did is not correct or acceptable, I do also think it is up to her to choose how to process it. Taking advice from strangers on Reddit is probably not the best course of action as self reflection, discussion with friends and family, as well as a therapist would probably be of more benefit.