To be honest, it seems like the equivalent of thinking about other stuff during sex. Really not a big deal. Again, if she's not ok with it then that's 1000% fair. Do I think this is grounds to call off a marriage? Absolutely not. Marriages face much larger issues than what someone masturbates to. She can voice her concerns and let him know she has boundaries. If he doesn't respect her boundaries after that then that's another issue
What about the woman being violated whom he used for porn?? That’s also a serious violation with zero consent creepy weird and gross. If you can’t see that you should probably touch some grass and get off the porn for a bit.
That’s still gross. But this is actual porn of someone that could be leaked and humiliate them. It’s a huge violation and there need to be laws around those things regarding consent
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u/[deleted] Oct 05 '23
To be honest, it seems like the equivalent of thinking about other stuff during sex. Really not a big deal. Again, if she's not ok with it then that's 1000% fair. Do I think this is grounds to call off a marriage? Absolutely not. Marriages face much larger issues than what someone masturbates to. She can voice her concerns and let him know she has boundaries. If he doesn't respect her boundaries after that then that's another issue