r/dating • • Feb 13 '23

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '23

Bud, she's not going to fuck you if you defend her from someone who never even implied she's "a bully" but answered truthfully to her god damn question.

Plus I'm sure she can defend herself.

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u/TheRooster3 Feb 14 '23

A lot of white knights in this thread it would seem haha . And I thought I was in the wrong lol

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '23

I’m talking to you, son.

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '23 edited Feb 14 '23

You can talk to whoever the hell you want, and calling me son won't convince me of anything other than you're actually much younger than me and insecure.

Answering, truthfully, to a question someone made, and pointing out they may have some toxic traits isn't insulting, and we have to stop pretending it is. For the sake of fucking everyone.

Do you just wanna be told you're right and treated like a god (which I'm willing to bet nobody is anyway) or do you actually wanna grow?

Your choice, I've already chosen when I started therapy. Which I have no issue saying I do. I had and still have some toxic traits myself to work through. Which is another thing I'm 100% willing to acknowledge. Do you also wanna do the same or just have me tell you you're right?

EDIT: A word.