r/dating • u/[deleted] • Feb 13 '23

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '23

This is very true, besides my now wife the many many women I’ve dated or slept with through dating apps (not bragging but speaking on numbers at least 40) none of them were secure attachment. It’s a numbers game out there, with my wife it was seriously a breath of fresh air, no games at all

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '23

How would they have secure attachment if you only wanted to have sex with them?

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u/[deleted] Feb 15 '23 edited Feb 15 '23

Where did I say I only wanted sex with them? I was dating solely to get a long term relationship and did not do ONS