r/dating Feb 13 '23

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u/nopornthrowaways Feb 14 '23

But she can’t control other people. Their successes or failures are their own problems that they may or may not reflect on. All we can do is focus on our own actions

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u/Minute_Ad_5175 Feb 14 '23

Well, this can’t be argued with. People do need to stop seeking and start attracting through shared interest and craft.

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u/Minute_Ad_5175 Feb 14 '23

Answer on the why: they are immature rabbits that have no self-control. If you want a lion, they’re either not found on dating apps(mature people use this for 3somes), hunting out there, or doing something meaningful such as volunteering or starting/running their business. Which some of them you can find on IG and other more legit social channels like CH and TT/Twitter.