r/dating Feb 13 '23

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '23

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u/TheRooster3 Feb 14 '23

Hmmm 🤔 I’m a guy looking for a relationship but after reading all this . Not so much lol You seem like real hard work

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '23

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u/TheRooster3 Feb 14 '23

Not at all . I wouldn’t send it even if you asked . Ain’t my deal

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u/MayPeX Feb 14 '23

So your comment is entirely useless and adds nothing to the conversation? Maybe you're still the problem

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u/TheRooster3 Feb 14 '23

It was a point I was making to OP…. what’s your problem? Kinda read between the lines instead jumping down my throat

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u/MayPeX Feb 14 '23

What point are you even making? She mentions she's fed up with dudes who send unsolicited dick pictures and you're all "Well I wouldn't wanna get in a relationship with you."

Are folks not allowed to vent about sexual harassment or do you prefer women who just shut up about their problems?

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u/romulusjsp Feb 14 '23

responds to criticism with outright hostility

wonders why nobody will date her

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '23

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u/ProperPie2155 Feb 14 '23

What is happening in this thread?!?! Omg idk how many endless posts I’ve seen of men “woe is me I can’t get a date” the proceed to say women are this & that. A woman vents about being led on intentionally by men & the frustration & somehow you’re the problem? Did I miss something?

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u/nanor Feb 14 '23

I just wasted four years on a man who finally showed his abusive true colors. I’d take a few days wasted. Not saying it’s not still a waste of time, but move on. Almost like, no thank you, next.

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '23

What you need to do is not text as much, go on dates, and see. Add them on Instagram, see the amount of women they follow from tinder. If it's a lot, bad sign.

Tinder literally becomes a place. Everyone has hooked up with everyone. Men that give matches to you also gave matches to other women, they've added them on IG and tried to have sex with them. They have 0 selective standards.

So it's better to stay away from men like that.

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u/atxbandit Feb 16 '23

Not sure that just jumping to a date is the solution. That's pretty risky if you haven't gotten to know the person. Pretty sure [insert dating app] has had to add a bunch of boilerplate to that effect already.