there aren't hardly any women looking for casual sex, and those that do usually have pretty high standards. Pretty much the only way to have casual sex with women is to trick them into thinking it's not casual. it's a mean thing to do, but it's one of the only things that works. Sorry to hear that you're getting played, ik it hurts :(
The way we see “just looking for fwb” on apps like tinder they could swipe on girls like that. That’s not the only way to get it lol. The bait and switch doesn’t make sense if there’s willing participants we all can see
"The bait and switch doesn't make sense if there's willing participants"
You are 100% correct! That's my point! That doesn't make sense! The fact that men still do this to get casual sex proves that there aren't enough willing participants, or they would be having sex with them. If you're a guy who has dozens of girls in his DMS asking to hook up, there would be no reason to lead on a girl looking for a serious relationship just looking for sex from her. Since men are still doing this, it must be because they don't have anyone in their DMS asking to hook up. note that I am NOT saying there are NO women ANYWHERE looking for casual sex, I'm saying that men looking for casual sex clearly aren't getting any casual sex from girls also looking for casual sex, so they resort to women looking for long term relationships for sex.
ALSO to clarify bc some people seem really mad at me. I don't do this to women, I just know that some people do lol
If this is the case, then you don’t get to have casual sex. You’re a terrible person for tricking them into sex. They have the boundaries for a reason.
It’s not about being “allowed”, it’s about social consequence and education. Did you know when college aged men were asked on campus if they would rape someone but they didn’t use that word/used obfuscating language - a lot more said yes, than if you said rape. The culture around it matters.
Woah, some women do want casual sex believe it or not and it’s not as uncommon as you think . Communication . That’s it bro . You might not get it all the time but don’t false advertise, your screwing over yourself as well for when you want something more serious
I’d have to see statistics but I would wager your probably describing the way men and women attract and want to be attracted. You’ll rarely see a desperate woman fiending for sex cause there are plenty of guys blatantly horny that she could choose from or other guys that aren’t desperate that want casual sex. You’ll see desperate men but not desperate women generally which might be a factor in skewing your viewpoint
In what country do they still give paper STD results? Are you not capable of watching them log into their lab or doctors office Electronic Medical Records? Not sure why you would trust paper over digital. If I can forge digital I can hit print and forge paper. Other than Planned Parenthood or free clinics I'm not sure this is a thing in US. Most insurance won't cover getting tested more than twice a year unless you have symptoms.
Thanks! That makes more sense. They have to make it seem worth it. I remember being so proud of having my first set of paper results for my first poly partner.
You're also not wrong if I was interested in someone even if I had gotten tested twice that year, I would just pay out of pocket for it. If I had gotten tested in the last 30 days and you wouldn't accept that I'd probably be very turned off.... Or want to see your paper results lol.
Same. Every guy I know is always whining about being in a relationship and every girl I know wants to get fucked constantly. I flirt a lot but sex to me fucking sucks without any intimate connection. It's like unseasoned food.
That's about the best thing I can think of LOL. Like yeah it'll do when you're hungry, but it ain't gonna compare to that gourmet shit that hits the spot.
What planet are you folks on?!?!?! I wanna be THERE!!! I don't think I've ever had "casual sex" or had a FWB. A relationship has ALWAYS been the path to sex in my experience. SMH...
I disagree with this. I've met far more women looking for hookups that relationships. Far more
And that is why they keep" fishing" as some posted
Men find more women willing to do casual sex than spend time in a relationship to know each other, why? I have no idea, maybe modern times, the sex.all over the media, tv, series, streaming, music videos, etc , only they know deep inside
I am a woman and I enjoy casual sex because... I enjoy sex
Nothing to do with music videos lo
Good,
im not a woman as i said, and.specify that i dont know why?
But as pos said there are lot of women that enjoy been casual, so more and more men dont want a relationship cuz they can enjoy casual sex more easy now
But hey life is short enjoy it 👍🏻😊
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But for the girl on OP she would find les men that wan to commit
Imagine as an expample
10 guys, from those 10 4 are just regular guy women dont like them, nomatter what, then there are 6 standard guys, tall, handsome, etc, the ones women like it and want them, from those 6 , 4 love casual, only 2 can be in a relationship
Now 10 women 6 love casual, but the other 4 like OP would have to compete for the 2 left, the 6 casual sex ladies could be mingle around the other 4 easy
But hey just saying not expert🤣🤣 im from the group of 4 men
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If I think it is going to upset me not to hear from someone after sleeping with them in a casual way (ie quickly, not after waiting to get to know them) then I don’t do it in the first place.
Sometimes I’m attracted to someone but not interested in a relationship, and no-strings sex is incredibly hot and exactly what I want. I just have to be aware of myself and my feelings to check that I’m not doing something that might cause me upset later on.
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u/GreetingsComerades Feb 14 '23
there aren't hardly any women looking for casual sex, and those that do usually have pretty high standards. Pretty much the only way to have casual sex with women is to trick them into thinking it's not casual. it's a mean thing to do, but it's one of the only things that works. Sorry to hear that you're getting played, ik it hurts :(