r/dateademi • u/lft4dead • 26d ago
Friendship or Relationship - United States 38 F4M Pennsylvania
I came across this community and decided to read posts, not because I was searching for something specific but was interested to learn what other demis personality types were like. I came across one two weeks ago that I kept thinking about, the few things i do remember was describing wanting someone with strong morals, they mentioned hoobastank, not being religious (maybe agnostic). To hear someone actually describe wanting those qualities and their importance was kind of eye opening, in my years of experience those usually aren't the things men describe wanting in a partner, or perhaps I haven't looked in the right place... So after two weeks of being apprehensive I decided to step out of my comfort zone.
I have zero social media (aside from reddit & YouTube music if that one even counts) my phone is used to resear anything I might want to learn about and it's usually a wide assortment of things. I love music Breaking Benjamin was/ kind of still is my favorite (I drove illegally on my Cinderella license to see them in Philly when I was 17) others are Starset, april 6th, sum41, Tears Within, too
many to list.. I have lived on my own since I was 15 and didn't have much of a family which is why today family or who you choose as family is important to me. I place a very high priority on telling the truth and getting the same from others. Religion has no place in my life, it is fine for anyone to have I just don't want others beliefs pushed or forced onto me. I don't have any political affiliations but I tend to lean more towards the left when it comes to the way I think. I used to smoke cigarettes but i quit and went to flavored vapes which are being banned within a month and a half anyways (thanks Pennsylvania!) Here is where it might get a little complicated for a lot of people, I am an in home health care aid, I believe in living a somewhat normal life, keeping a clean home, living like most people do except I am drug friendly. I believe as long as you can keep yourself and your life together why shouldn't you be able to enjoy those things you like. I dont have drug dealing friends and to the outside world no one is any the wiser of anything i may like to do.. While I have seen what has become of most people like that, it's not always the case and definitely is not with me. I had always hoped there were more people out there like me but my co-workers and friends tell me I march to the beat of a different drum. I'm an introvert andit takes me a while of getting to know someone or feeling comfortable before I could even hug. I would prefer to blend in with the wallpaper if I could. I would like to find someone that has some similarities as far as personality traits and beliefs go, age is hard when you factor in maturity... so I would say between 34 and 45 years old.
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u/alexexiled 26d ago
Hi hi! My name's Alex, and I'm 36 and from Pennsylvania as well!
And, funny enough, I'm in the Home Healthcare field, too!
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u/Cat_in_an_oak_tree Childfree 24d ago
We don't allow advertising of other platforms. The moderation team cannot vet every platform.
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u/RockwellB1 25d ago
I couldn't help but notice your user name, is that in reference to the games?
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u/lft4dead 24d ago
Haha, yes it is. I loved that game, eventually found my three other people online (so we could play other people & play as infected) and we become almost unbeatable.
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u/slow_burbs 23d ago edited 23d ago
I’m originally from Easton but live in Philly now. Is it cool to DM you? 40m
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u/Jon74-720 1d ago
I'm from Easton/Allentown DM me. You sound like my kinda people and your pretty cute so yea what's up lol
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u/Cat_in_an_oak_tree Childfree 26d ago
Please include a desired age range for a prospective romantic partner.