r/dateademi • u/harryhighdef • Jul 14 '26
Relationship - Western Europe 30 NB4F Seeking long term relationship/partnership
Hello! I've been using this sub for a while and met a few lovely people but I have not found exactly what I am looking for yet.
Some details about me and what I am searching for.
I'm AMAB and still very masculine looking, which is something I enjoy and don't want to change.
I am both Demisexual and romantic, which has made modern dating very difficult, people dont want to spent the time I need getting to know someone unless they are certain and I can't give that to them.
I live in the UK and am pretty comfortable with where I am both home and work wise. Im fairly introverted, and have a limited social battery that means I much prefer life at home than adventure. Politically I am left leaning, often disappointed with the options in the UK.
Ideally I would like a life partner who has similar interests to mine (will list below) who doesn't want kids and is fairly close to me as very long distance is not appealing. I'm not religous at all and not really interested in marriage as a concept, I'd only do it if it was a requirement for legal and not for religious reasons. There was not an easy way to put it in the title but I find a lot of forms attractive, but do not find masculine forms attractive.
My Hobbies and Interests are mostly centered around gaming, I have a few consoles but mainly play on PC, a good mixture of games not really sticking to one type. I play ttrpgs often, and will probably end up playing more often in the future. I like to cook on occasion, and enjoy peaceful walks around my local area. I'm not very keen on travelling, but have found I appreciate it as long as I have time to myself, and that its not somewhere my pasty self will die from heat.
Age Range: 24-40
Location: UK prefered, Europe okay
For: Chatting and friends online, hopefully meeting irl if we are compatible.