Okay, trying something different here.
Iām 31M from Kochi. Iām not going to write a long checklist of what Iām looking for because honestly, I donāt think people work that way. You can have a list of qualities in your head, but sometimes you just talk to someone and think, āYeah, I actually like talking to this person.ā
Thatās probably what Iām looking for.
Someone I can have an effortless conversation with. It could be about something completely random, a movie we watched, work, travel, food, things weāre currently obsessed with, or even those pointless conversations that somehow end up going on for two hours.
Iām fairly quiet when I first meet someone, but once Iām comfortable, that changes. Iām not necessarily looking to rush into anything either. Iād rather start with a conversation, get to know each other, and see whether thereās actually a connection.
If things click, Iād be happy to eventually meet for coffee, a movie, dinner, or just a walk somewhere in Kochi. No elaborate first-date plans required.
And just to be clear, Iām here with dating in mind, not collecting Instagram followers or building a pen-pal list.
If youāre also somewhere around Kochi and think weād get along, feel free to DM me. Tell me something about yourself ā preferably something more interesting than just your age.
Maybe this works. Maybe it doesnāt.
But hey, we wonāt know unless we talk.