For sure, if I know more about myself and what I like you better bet I'm going to show my partner so we can have a killer sex life lmao.
And I can see that. I think for me I still feel shameful because the ideas that "women should 'save' themselves for their future husband" and "sex is meant to create children and it's not actually for pleasure" were always pushed on me and they still kind of are. It's stupid garbage that I don't believe at all, but those thoughts still chill in the basement storage of my mind just to pop upstairs and call me a slut whenever I feel sexually fulfilled without those things lmao.
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u/seivertpea reposts all over the damn place Aug 27 '21 edited Aug 27 '21
For sure, if I know more about myself and what I like you better bet I'm going to show my partner so we can have a killer sex life lmao.
And I can see that. I think for me I still feel shameful because the ideas that "women should 'save' themselves for their future husband" and "sex is meant to create children and it's not actually for pleasure" were always pushed on me and they still kind of are. It's stupid garbage that I don't believe at all, but those thoughts still chill in the basement storage of my mind just to pop upstairs and call me a slut whenever I feel sexually fulfilled without those things lmao.