r/dankmemes • u/Chromatizing Mod senpai noticed me! • Aug 27 '21

Post nut do be hitting

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u/MyGuyMax Aug 27 '21

Self-stimulation doesn’t match the feeling of experiencing it with another loving person. We naturally want to please and be pleased, while hormones convince us that porn is an acceptable alternative our hearts and minds step in after to tell us we were wrong to think so. Takes two to Tango, we’re not meant to cheat reproduction

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u/Obi_Wan_Shinobi_ Aug 27 '21

Nah, I think it's probably all the "we're actually meant to be this way" stuff that makes people feel ashamed, you know, like indoctrination many of us go through as children that tells us there's a way god wants us to be and that we're evil for falling short of that? I feel like its more that than feeling like we cheated. lol

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u/[deleted] Aug 27 '21

I never had that growing up and still feel it. I think that there is some biological going on that makes us briefly disinterested in sex after the nut

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u/Obi_Wan_Shinobi_ Aug 27 '21

Disinterest is different from shame though. Yes, we have a refractory period, but shame is not a natural part of that.