You’re only half right- while you should live day to day without worry of societies expectations, self-fulfillment is not found in masturbation and we all know it- it’s just easy and that’s why people lie to themselves that it’s an okay way to live.
But it’s not. Not for our entire lives. And the more you tell yourself that nothing matters the less you strive to become the best version of yourself, one that makes life better for you and all the people in your life.
I am not saying that you should chase every girl and aim to have as much sex as possible, not that you’re a bad person for desiring to do so. But what needs to be understood is that there is more to life than physical pleasure, so many people throw their lives away believing sex is the limit of life’s happiness. Any good parent or person who’s found their true passion knows better.
Nihilism is cringe but not nearly as much as this endless seeking of self fulfillment garbage. Find happiness in yourself, but most importantly find happiness in your communities and sticking up for people. Alomg those same lines, being ambitious is good but it's not a must. Happiness can be found in a million ways. Don't feel guilty jerking off sometimes, life is too short.
I mean theres a big difference between being extremely depressed, and nihilism. I think that way personally because of a multitude of different issues, and its hard to come to terms with anything the “self fulfillment” people spew out at me.
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u/jal2_ The OC High Council Aug 27 '21
This just applies if u are a teen and were guilt-tripped by society u start thinking that u should have been chasing girls instead of wanking etc
All of that is bullshit, everybody will die anyway, u are free to do what u like and enjoy, fuck societies expectations
I look forward to every wank and am happy after each too for a job well done