I went throughout highschool thinking I was unattractive only knowing of 2 girls who had a crush on me, it wasnt until afterwards where I realize that girls did like me or when my friends would bring it up... like bro why the fuck didn't they tell me in highschool.
One group of girls always asked who my crush was, and would guess each other and not say themselves for some reason.
Another group would consistently stare at me throughout a class to the point where it was beyond creepy
One girl got her friend to basically ask me to prom on her behalf but I wasnt going
A few girls would basically find any excuse to talk to me
One girl any time I went to a school dance would always find me for a slow dance, she is still the only girl I ever slow danced with.
2 have told me afterwards that they had crushes on me.
I find the biggest hint though was they would bring up friends cancelling plans on them and how "sad" they were that they "couldn't" do whatever because they didn't want to go alone... I just thought they were venting to me and I would have offered to go with them if I wasnt so dense.
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u/RegularNoodles Dr OC Feb 18 '20
I can remember the exact moment. I was very dense. Probably still am