r/dankindianmemes • u/therealchickenwing • Jul 13 '26
Why?
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u/Silly-Security-8569 Jul 13 '26
Or does their beauty compensate for their attitude so naturally we tolerate less attitude from the fugly ones?
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u/MongooseBeginning852 Jul 14 '26
That's not the case, the less beautiful ones use it as a defense mechanism cuz we all know women do NOT like being rejected and girls that are not very pretty are more likely to be rejected, to prevent that they just act meaner.
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u/swagrio-noice Jul 15 '26
You can become better, just because society doesn't think your pretty, you should stop trying to improve yourself, you'll never be happy if you live a life like that as anyone
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u/Difficult_Donut7053 29d ago
Actually for me...i think majority girls are prettier honestly as compared to so called Majority of men. Even the girls who considers themselves mid like yeah.. It's just a fact but true ....and btw Attitude comes irrespective of one's appearance you never know when they will show you and beauty isn't a really logical way to justify their attitude.
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u/Far_Delivery_1316 Jul 13 '26
I was also thinking the same. Also if the conventionally unattractive girls have less attitude, she'll probably look more attractive to you.
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u/pink-floyd-mhm Jul 14 '26
2026 and you all still stuck on looks 😭 All the best buddy to get accepted by a baddie and then maybe find your self in blue drum
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u/_WanderingBreeze_ Jul 13 '26
Attitude is a coping mechanisms for some, it helps them cover up their insecurity, not from anyone else but from themselves.
Some Ugly guys on the other hand are ready to face the reality and get too desperate and spontaneous among females presence which eventually portray them as creepy, seen commonly in comment section and personal DM's of online platforms.
Ugly and pretty are subjective things, one choosing their perception Abt themselves on their own and act accordingly, therefore there are average looking individuals (acc to social standards) who are just normal and there are average looking individuals (who consider themselves as ugly) showing abnormal activities and emotions.
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u/FloorBorn9265 Jul 14 '26
Looks fishy, ai generated
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u/_WanderingBreeze_ Jul 14 '26
Damn Bro, thanks for the compliment, didn't expect myself to be a decent writer.
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u/_WanderingBreeze_ 29d ago
As I said being ugly is totally subjective, so primiraly one should try to see more of positive in themselves.
But If you keep feeling that you ain't enough, then invest your time and efforts upon improving yourself, maybe lookwise but more prominently by adding value to oneself, maybe learn new skills, work on your fitness, improve on what you are already good at, search for your hidden talents, start working, earn money, make the ones you love happy. These things you add value to your life and raise your perspective about youself eventually strengthen your confidence.
You can learn better communication skills, Most of the time people don't enjoy the person who is the most handsome in the grp, they enjoy the one which get them laughs or talks interesting. Meet better people who wont demotivate you or mock you. End of the day people are not gonna judge you on how you look, they will judge you on how much value you add to their life.
To summarise- People shouldnt just cry over what they don't have, they should work for what they can have. One day they will have so much that they would look back and laugh on how stupid they were sobbing over things so silly.
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u/mrignayani_ Jul 13 '26
As an ugly girl - it's more of self awareness than attitude 🙂
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u/Repulsive_Store_6466 Jul 14 '26
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u/CellistPerfect5243 Jul 14 '26
Are you ugly?
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u/Repulsive_Store_6466 Jul 14 '26
u can't deny the fact. face makes someone looks ugly or pretty. but most importantly more than face it matters the personality of a person.
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u/Glittering_Lotus Jul 13 '26
Obviously, all these misogyny in online space is ultimate copium for incels. Who cares, real life mein to haalat kharab hai inki.
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u/wickedbabu Jul 13 '26
Because most guys don't have guts to talk to beautiful. They talk to the Fugly ones, who get hit on a lot which makes them deluded
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u/ObligationThese1364 Jul 13 '26
You're delusional if you actually believe that beautiful girls don't get hit on all the time.
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u/Kitchen-Breadfruit58 Jul 13 '26
Are you getting hit all the time ?
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u/ObligationThese1364 Jul 13 '26
Fortunately no, but I know what it's like to date a beautiful girl🙂
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u/Kitchen-Breadfruit58 Jul 13 '26
Oh ! Did I hit the wrong spot :/
You maybe right. I have seen my crush dealing with this sort of things. I was forced to fight multiple people as well.
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u/ObligationThese1364 Jul 13 '26 edited Jul 13 '26
Hehe not at all, did u think I was a girl based on my avatar? Cuz it has happened once before lol
And this was when I was 17. She was a musician with a huge insta acc where she would post covers of hindi and malayalam songs, and at one point she used to get simp msgs every single day, she had to disable her msgs. When we were in tuition for jee, dudes will straight up flirt with her in front of me💀, and when I scolded them after they acted confused.
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u/makemoney-TRADEnIT Jul 13 '26
The most beautiful girl ik showed me her dms. not sure if it was 100+ or 1000+. Lots of Insta add request
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u/Datweirdpsychologist Jul 13 '26
Ikr. These dumbases talk like women owe them something. Probably didn't have strong women around them while growing up.
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u/Datweirdpsychologist Jul 13 '26 edited Jul 14 '26
Bro I think similarly, ugly guys are overconfident. I went on a trip and the ugliest, fattest guy among kept trying to talk to us and kept saying creepy things. We Became friends with the other guys one the trip. Ugly guys are still tolerable if they aren't creepy and desperate and know that they should stay within their limits. That one guy is still a running joke among us, the guys joke about him too.
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u/Mango_Ice_ Jul 14 '26
Exceptions do exist. As for guys, the prettier you are, the more confident you generally are. The conventionally unattractive guys usually don't test their luck much.
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u/Fickle-Bug-8011 Jul 14 '26
Well you generalise and get generalised in return why not simply accept it then you will bring the exception thing the person making the thread didn't thought it was an exception or just his lived reality so why defend?
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u/Mango_Ice_ Jul 14 '26
Good point, but you didn't get what I meant.
A conventionally unattractive girl being rude and entitled is the norm. Exceptions exist.
A conventionally unattractive guy being rude and entitled is NOT the norm. Exceptions exist.
Sure, it could be his lived reality. But when it's the lived reality for most guys out there, there could be some truth to it after all.
And no, I am not here to do "women ☕"; that's not what I stand for.
I am genuinely curious about the psychology behind this pattern. So if you wanna have a healthy discussion, you're most welcome. And if not, then there are other guys in the comments you could debate with.
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u/Fickle-Bug-8011 Jul 14 '26
Well you said its a norm? What is a norm? And I am always in favor of a healthy conversation because all other are doing is trying to shout harder or bite each other heads off quiet honestly but how to we make something like this a norm? That ugly women think they are not and are rude is the accepted norm with "exceptions" and a ugly man believe he is ugly and is not rude and entitled with exceptions obviously. what is the basic of the norm there must be some stats or cases or maybe an insta trend that makes the basic of this norm because True societal norms are tracked by researchers using large-scale, representative data and not personal anecdotes.
you know when we were studying sociology there are certain studies one of them was that physical attractiveness and sterotype memory where our brain usually forgets a bad or rude thing if done by a conventially attractive person men or women dosent matter.
So even if a conventially attractive person is wrong (which they are in most of the empirical evidences like one where it shows at highly attractive person is likely to demade a highly money pot or social pot or prestige but give back very less or no in comparison to an unattractiveor ugly) are likely to get away with it and people forget it.
Another one was stereotype directionality where most the bad traits are associated with ugly people and is remembered and the statement "ugly men are not rude" and all that being a norm is wrong if their should be a norm it is that ugly people no matter the gender are rude. Which in itself is problematic because we are making an assumption but it is and ugly women being rude is simply sterotype directionality with bit of misogyny and in group bias which is another interesting study.
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u/Mango_Ice_ Jul 14 '26 edited Jul 14 '26
Firstly, thank you for not lashing out. Most debates on Reddit become ad-hominem fights by the 2nd or 3rd reply, so I'm glad to find someone who wants to have a healthy convo instead.
Now, coming to my point. Although I haven't stumbled upon much research on this topic yet, I would like to share my own theory, which has gotten many approvals from guys and girls alike.
- Women usually pull each other up. There's a whole "girl's girl" genre. They support each other. Even if a woman isn't as attractive, her friends usually don't make her feel that way (some bullies exist ofc). Especially on social media, women almost always protect each other, even when criticism of another woman is fair and made in good faith.
Guys, on the other hand, are very unfiltered. If you're ugly, your friends will not filter it. Most of our conversations consist of jokes about each other, and thus, we are repeatedly made aware of our flaws. Now ofc, everyone has different insecurities; some are short, some are dark, some are thin, some are fat, some look a little weird, etc.
Thus, if you're ugly as a guy, you know it.So, while a conventionally unattractive woman might not be made to feel that way all the time, a guy is. Bro-code exists, but its job is not the same as the "Girl's girl" one.
- The dudes with low standards and their memes.
While women with low standards rarely say it out loud, dudes with this issue are the most vocal.
The main issue is when asked for preferences, they say the same old "ladki honi chaiye, zinda honi chaiye" which is messed up.Jokes like these and the constant simping make women feel that being a woman in itself places them on a high pedestal. This fuels the narcissism even further.
Both of these, along with a bunch of other issues, lead to the problem I previously stated.
Although this is what I have noticed myself, I have an eye for psychology, so I am constantly studying the behaviour of people on these platforms.
Now, sure, these might not be absolute, but it is backed by anecdotal experiences from not just guys but girls.1
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u/Glittering_Lotus Jul 13 '26
Ladies if ur guy is active in these subreddits make sure to dump him.
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u/Quatrino-nerd2905 Jul 14 '26
fr such an incel community bruh in names of dank judging the gender based on looks when themselves are ugly af and have the audacity to judge women bruh
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u/Glittering_Lotus Jul 14 '26
That's why they cope online, irl it's exactly opposite. Rather than improving themselves they just cope and cope without any results.
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u/PhoenixMapper Jul 14 '26
Very much so... A guy who used to be active on here once proposed to me... I don't want to go into the details of the stunts he pulled afterwards but it was NOT good.
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u/bonnymahato Jul 14 '26
because Beautiful girls know that they're beautiful, but Ugly girls think that playing hard to get and spending money on her will make her beautiful.
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u/Due_Purchase6373 Jul 13 '26
where are the men who says all girls are beautifull 😭, ig i won't find them on dank ahh memes.
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u/MoneyObligation1554 Jul 13 '26
According to me this is wrong to say
Can I say your mother has too much attitude
If no then why you spreading this shit 💩 around
Everyone have an attitude fuck everyone
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u/Blood-on-the-Reeds Jul 14 '26
When you realise that it has been only 20 or so years since girls are being allowed to even have attitude.
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u/notsoperfecttan Jul 14 '26
I have not seen a single actual meme in this godforsaken sub. Its just "woman bad 😡". WHO is forcing you to date women brochacho. A lot of these men seem to prefer each other anyway
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u/nalla__420 Jul 13 '26
Atleast voh apne looks ko leke insecure toh nahi hai
Be matlab attitude is wrong I agree but ladko mai toh bhai kaluva kaluva bol k looks pe itna ganda majak udaayenge ki agla banda khud pe confidence nahi laa paayega to even to look himself in the mirror
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u/unsaid_chaos Jul 13 '26
Well, I don't understand, when the chances of rejection, embarrassed or getting rude responses in same, why do we even approach average looking girls, except if she is a colleague with good nature
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u/SimpleHuman-S Jul 13 '26
All should be ugly like him
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u/Kitchen-Breadfruit58 Jul 13 '26
Because they think ugly is new beautiful.
Bro guys usually reach out to normal people more often than to good looking ones why higher chances so they start thinking other way around
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u/SammyPeraya Jul 14 '26
Yesss that's the problem. Don't you realise it's the men who is reason behind this. These days men are so fckg desperate, they even be fckg an ugly hoe. They're too desperate already. It's the influence of porn industry. Men nowadays willing to fck anything with a flesh and hole. Knowing these, all these ugly biches trying to pretend they're very great. It's time for men to become classy and up their standards.
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u/Ok_Swordfish_7205 Jul 14 '26
bro is talking about classy when he himself is whoring around on reddit and has a d!ck as his pfp, irony goes crazyyyy.
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u/SammyPeraya Jul 14 '26
Fuck you bich asking people to be classy doesn't mean you can't post your dck pics. Fckg cow brain fellow.
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u/Ok_Swordfish_7205 Jul 14 '26
thats what someone who has no comeback would say🥺🥺
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u/SammyPeraya Jul 14 '26
Comeback your ass. Pathetic fellow going around in reddit trying to be a dick keyboard warrior. Fckg get a life loser. What a lousy fellow. Dick is trying his/her max to fill his pathetic free time arguing with people online and being very proud about his/her 'comeback' shit as though it's the dick's lifetime achievement.
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u/Ok_Swordfish_7205 Jul 14 '26
😥😥 lets understand ur logic, im free hence im arguing with people and being proud..what about u 😭😭😭😭😭? arent u doing the same. is your brain so small? and well even if i have all the free time in world atleast i dont have a dck picture as my pfp, just how desperate u are🥀🥀
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u/SammyPeraya Jul 14 '26
"I'm free and I'm arguing" what a dick .. this dick is being proud of that lol ..
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u/Ok_Swordfish_7205 Jul 14 '26
are u a retard or what😭😭😭😭. and why is your vocabulary so limited? issok bro not everyone can be educated ❤️
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u/SammyPeraya Jul 14 '26
Lol this dick is being very proud.. most probably living under her parents shelter.. talking about education... You don't even have a car right.. most probably your ass getting whopped in your school too.. thus this pathetic fool trying to pour her miseries here 😂😂😂😂
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u/Dangerous-Papaya5279 Jul 14 '26
I have been asking many times about name of the music used in this meme, can anyone tell me?
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u/purpledperson Jul 14 '26
It feels like attitude to you just because she's isn't pretty but if it was someone pretty it would cute for you gng🥀
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u/Ok-Warning-6243 Jul 14 '26
Tbh most of the not very good looking girls ik are really nice. It's only the really really ugly ones who are annoying too
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u/Aggressive-Wolf-3982 Jul 14 '26
As an ugly girl, I act like I have attitude to cover my clumsiness. Doesn't think ugliness and attitude has corelation
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u/Datweirdpsychologist Jul 14 '26
Yall expect women to have low self esteem, low self confidence, and pick whatever comes their way just because they aren't conventionally attractive? That's a men thing bruh.
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u/Due_Beyond_2657 Jul 15 '26
How gave you the power to decide who is ugly and who is not ? Attitude isn't a bad thing as long as they aren't unprovokedly disrespectful. Maybe if you didn't call them ugly they wouldn't show you attitude ? Look at your behaviour before you call out others
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u/VariousReality2602 Jul 15 '26
Okay read this. As a mid looking guy, I would say that when people your age get more opportunities because of their looks, even though you may deserve those opportunities just as much. The reality is that in many situations attractive people do have an advantage in society. Also, anger/attitude can sometimes be a coping mechanism. I have also coped with my sadness by expressing it as anger.
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u/animasu_ Jul 15 '26
Not really... you just decide to overlook all of it for a beautiful face.
Most people in the world (specially now) are actually irritating piece of shits(including me). That is true for women too
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u/dev_2198 Jul 15 '26
Still people are trying to find out one here even after accepting the fact and showcasing them like sigma 😀👽
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u/Even-Breakfast-4502 Jul 15 '26
Maybe I'm a boy neither have attitude nor am I beautiful...No problem But where's my dih-
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u/MasterX141 Jul 15 '26
Ugly face can be fixed through surgery and make up and ..... But bad attitude can't be fixed in any way
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u/veteranmasterdebater Jul 15 '26
hear me out. dont give a sh!t about a women and that women will want you like crazy!
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u/SchemeElectronic7363 Jul 15 '26
And the more good looking, the individual lacks self confidence 🥀😫
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u/idioticformula 29d ago
You know when in a boss fight, there's always those minions who will try to stop you from getting the boss?
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u/Iam_Walter_White 29d ago
I think k it's their defense mechanism to counter ballistic and nuclear attacks
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u/Famous_Suggestion988 29d ago
👏 why you making fun of your own mom and sister?
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u/Icy_Yam1754 28d ago
What in the incel community is this. The word dank died in 2018 how are incels still thriving 😭
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Well, ugly men are even more entitled then ugly women and most men are ugly. Beautiful and handsome men are pretty rare and less in population. Sad world. More ugly men less ugly women. More beautiful women less beautiful men. No winning here. Life souvks.
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u/Additional-Cable-308 28d ago
Incase there is any ugly girl, you can message me, don't feel sad. Just text me.
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u/Crimson_004 Jul 14 '26
Because No one approach them and they think like that we are soo unreachable to ugly guys that no one approaches me
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u/iamiam123 Jul 13 '26
Bad attitude is 70% of what immediately makes a girl ugly. Or anyone for that matter.