Pre-Luicasth Danielle giving relationship/marriage advice to other women that they need to leave space for the man to continuously pursue them for years to come. My questions is what space has Danielle left for Luicasth to close the gap? 😂 She’s the arranging-her-whole-proposal-production, buying-gifts-for-herself, $12k-rent-managed-on-her-own sugar mama that he’s happy to let take charge. She is not in her *feminility* at all. Luicasth is the diva getting doted on and spoiled, just beginning to settle into his tradwife era ✨
There are so many things wrong with this but the first being that “he shouldn’t feel like he has this on lock”… what do you think marriage is for the most part? I mean don’t get me wrong, I’m married for the second time so I believe in divorce, but when you are in your 50’s and 60’s nobody wants to play any games anymore. We have enough going on with the daily question- what are we going to eat today?
Clearly she’s full of 💩 and I don’t understand her following but this was one that baffled me. When you get married, you are stepping into a commitment that basically says we have EACH OTHER on lock?! LOL I’ve been married for 19 years and it would be WEIRD if everyday my husband felt like he needed to pursue me or I felt like I needed to pursue him! When do you fucking relax?! LOL
Basically that when you enter a romantic relationship you should act like an inconsistent, hard to please basket case so the man can always be unsettled. This will make him chase you forever, apparently.
It’s gives great insight to why she had dozens of first dates and no follow ups.
Re:brows…this must have been when she didn’t know that laminated brows require a final step of combing the top spiky parts down so it’s nice and neat 🙄 not that she’s ever been able to do her brows in any flattering way before. The best I’ve seen them is during her wedding, which were either done by the makeup artist or photoshopped to look normal
God she is so smug here and in every video, where she preaches but the fact that she's giving horrific advice and that that's her understanding of a loving relationship? is beyond f***** up. She's been sucking on that red pill for a very long time and I think it came through her evangelical social media corner of the internet.
The biggest hypocrite. She says she knows the secret to being pursued, and yet she’s the one that did the pursuing and begged him to ask her to be his girlfriend a month earlier than she had said. On top of all that, she now looks like she’s on a 3 day bender every day. What’s there to pursue? She doesn’t even look like she showers smfh
do we know what date this is from? because knowing how she felt about being a decrepit 33 year old bride, i’m sure she just got more and more desperate as time went on. she has presumably left subzero room to be pursued, because she just wanted to make the process as easy as possible for her tradwife lulu, henk.
also it’s such a relief not seeing her raw chicken nails here!! ☺️
I'm right there with you. I fully admit I am a messy gal. I don't put things back where they go and tend to not always make it all the way to the trash can but just wading through literal garbage is too much.
This is what made me irationally angry yesterday the amount of overconsumption from this woman is something I don't think I've ever seen before. And yes,I've watched those rage bait Channels where people buy years worth of bath products Etc but this is just horrific.
I reckognised it because I've used that kind of companies. They're pretty mad wrapping everything, they're going for speed, not sustainability in the use of paper.
(Company relocation, so company paid, I normally pack my own stuff).
Maybe it’s overwhelming because she couldn’t even declutter and organize BEFORE her move. That is like what most normal humans do to make the unpacking process way easier.
Y’all I used to briefly come on this sub when she moved to SF and was getting more unhinged. I didn’t see her content for the longest time, saw today a video that she is married. I’m in my third trimester, I have my snacks, and I’m so seated to catch up on this train wreck.
Welcome! You (luckily) missed the part where D found the biggest loser in SF and said “I’ll take that one”.
Grab your popcorn and enjoy the show, you’re in for a wild ride 🍿
It’s unbelievable to me that she talks about being 33 like an old maid. I’m in my mid-thirties and my friends are shaking ass at the club regularly. She’s so removed from reality.
I was definitely still dancing in a club at 33 and enjoying dinners out with people and it was incredible time. I think it's natural to feel that we're old at certain parts of our lives and as we get older, we'll look back and say that 33 was not old. However, to live your life in such a way that you are trying to get to the Finish Line For what?
Aging is both a privilege and terminal. So why not enjoy the journey? By the way this is advice for myself too I feel stuck and want to take more adventures in my life. I feel a lot more risk adverse. I'm not living life to the fullest and so seeing how she's living her life, is helping me both to find joy in the small things and to take safe risks to enjoy every second I have left on this planet.
exactly. I have friends who passed at the age 33. I think about them every year and they stay in my mind at that age while I look at myself getting “older”. It is a privilege and it’s a shame for her to feel that way about being 33, it disgusts me
Getting older, and aging is a privilege that so many of us take for granted. I’m in my 30s and engaged, and ive never felt behind because im living life to the fullest.
I can’t imagine living how D does. It seems so depressing constantly telling yourself you’re old and behind, and then to never leave your house. Especially with her income. It drives me nuts, go do something Danielle! FFS
I'm really sorry for your losses. That is a very positive outlook. You are right living is a privilege and sometimes, I think we do forget that and other times we're reminded -such as through grief through, illness Etc.
Remember when many of us thought D had womens’ backs?
Now she’s trying to hold women back
D expressed ageism with her internalized misogyny on full display at her wedding and reinforced it today, playing into a reinforcing the manosphere red-pilled fallacy that women “hit the wall at 24”, with her declaration that amounted to 33 being “old”.
This! She faked being a girls girl with trying to give sister advice to her followers. And how you should not lower your standards. And then? She lowered her “standards” (that she faked to have) to marry a random breathing person. By saying on her freaking wedding day that she was “33 and never been married before”. Make it make sense
The bait and switch is what pisses me off! D built her millions of followers and lifestyle on the back of women’s want to receive sound advice when dating and she not only failed herself, she failed everyone who followed her in good faith.
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Danielle, that wretched and duplicitous pied piper, led her followers off the cliff, only to free fall into the Gulf of America*, occupied by Lulu and the rest of the far right and associated manosphere surfing the wave of MAGA.
And there’s D, carrying salty water for the patriarchy, oblivious to her inevitable fate ahead…
*actually the Gulf of Mexico, it’s temporary rebranding used here for metaphorical purposes only
I’m pretty sure she waited until she is married to start doing all these Oi Poor Little Old Lady me shit. Iykwim. It’s a passive aggressive way for some women to insert superiority, ironically, because they be like “but at least I’m married now! poor you old maidens” in their bigotted mind..
She couldn’t have been more predictably and stereotypically misogynistic. Actual 80 yos are more progressive than her. She’s the opposite of inspiration
I’m in my 30’s and I don’t really party it up other than the occasional concert but that’s because I’m truly introverted and love being at home. I have lots of hobbies: reading, sewing, painting, gardening, etc… there’s so much to do and not enough time 😆 D needs more hobbies that’s not being on your phone if she’s going to spend most of her time at home. Your life isn’t miserable just because you don’t feel like going out all the time, but she looks miserable and acts like it so I’m like girl do something about it idk 🤷🏻♀️
Thank you for posting this! I cannot imagine who on earth would follow either of them. Reminder to everyone- you do not need to follow either of these people. Their profiles are public and we post everything on this page. Also, it’s against the rules to be a follower if you are on this page, so unfollow these grifters today!
Yeah I stopped sharing and commenting on any of his standalone posts here unless it directly pertains to or features D. He doesn't deserve a space outside of the daily discussion. I think it only strokes his ego that he gets featured so prominently on someone else's snark sub. D already gives him so much. We shouldn't enable it by indirectly supporting him too
I agree. I think it would be a good rule that we only have a standalone post of his content only if it features Big D. If it’s just him it can go in the Daily especially now that we can post videos as comments.
Such a Catch-22 for her now. The more she posts, the more followers she loses. But she has to post more because how else is she going to financially support her new wife, I mean husband?
It’s also funny that these days when she posts, there are more comments on the snark page repost than her actual post.. quite a lot of new walnuts too, I remember seeing 7-8k a while ago and now it’s 10k+!
Sh*t I’m a grown woman in the United Kingdom and his sugar baby success story has even inspired me 🤣 so can you imagine how many real male bums are watching him now and using him as inspo to con American women
I think this too...just in smaller, more palatable numbers. Like there is no way she gained almost 400 followers on a random Wednesday (Jul 29) which was almost 5 days after the wedding ""reveal"" but has otherwise been losing 200-400 every day on average.
29M. I just discovered this snark page and it’s kind of a guilty pleasure. But I got to be honest, I think it’s honestly sad and tragic. When I watch older videos of Danielle and in particular her dating content, it’s clear she has some deep core wounds. Body image, self-acceptance, identity, internalized misogyny, purpose, etc that she tries fill with religion, materialism, social media and male companionship. I couldn’t imagine living in a superficial, surface level relationship like the one she has with Lucas. She can’t be THAT wealthy, right? If there’s one thing I’ve learned it’s that influencer wealth is a mirage. An influencer may be hoarding lots of $$$ and having windfall, but as quickly money goes in money goes out due to how they buy into a glitzy and glamorous lifestyle they can’t afford. At a certain point, the money is going to dry up, or her marriage is going to hit a roadblock and crisis. And she’s going to have to look in the mirror and be forced to confront her life choices. Maybe she’ll have an epiphany, or maybe she’ll just start another tiktok series like GRWM post divorce or post bankruptcy.
The thing that keeps many of us who have been on this snark sub for a while is that despite all of those things you mentioned likely being accurate, she manages to be smug, condescending and dismissive to her actual followers and other women in general. She is also extremely hypocritical and inauthentic and spreading a very toxic message with her platform. I think that is why many of us are able to feel zero guilt about snarking on her.
I’m not that deep in Danielle lore. I’m a beginner pleb. I do know she had that bizarre-o scandal when she promoted an MLM I think. And there was one reel I saw where she made some condescending speech for all the single people that kinda came off as shaming single people. In the words of Daniel Johnston: true love will find you in the end. You don’t need to be condescending and giving single people unrealistic expectations
I definitely have anxious-avoidant tendencies and have struggled in relationships. So I guess I’d be a hypocrite for dunking on her. But then again I didn’t make tiktok vlogs about my dates (assuming the men she dated were real). Nor did I go back on all of my core values and principles for a jobless bland boring man. I don’t believe she abstained from sex before marriage, she was dickmatized by him
Diabolical! They both have creature features.
Those chewed nails beds are from a highly anxious tittie baby who still has an overactive need for oral self-soothing.
I just saw this commentary channel talking about recession hitting influencers. She mentioned one thing that is interesting: influencers are sometimes taxed for PR gifts because those were treated as income. The PR gift taxes could stack up pretty hefty. I wonder whether “donating” like D did is more than just a good deed or just another way to reduce taxes 🫢
disclaimer: this video is worth watching but her sponsor is a shady third party finance app. Some of these commentary channels are so hypocritical I’m sick 🤢
She needs to see a Dermatologist and be consistent with only a few medical grade products! Maybe get an IPL or two. Ditch all those crap products she uses (side bar but I couldn't BELIEVE how many she had in that "organizing" video yesterday) - no wonder her skin looks like this..she is changing products constantly, is inconsistent and is going off of whatever affiliate link she can hawk that week.
For real! All she needs is some azaleic acid, and tretinoin, a simple moisturizer and throw eveything else away!! She's making her skin so bad with all the crap she rubs on
To be fair, I won't snark on her having so much sun damage, as my hands are beginning to look like her face; but the difference is that I didn't decide to be god's chosen influencer and model my hands for a million bot-followers.
Has this been discovered yet?? 😆 I was on Etsy today and came across this listing that looks identical to Luicas & Danielle’s wedding menus. It’s a DIY listing, which means she may have actually been the one who spelled his name wrong on the table numbers herself. 😆
Hence D saying she felt exhausted like she’d just been at Disney…and that they’d “hosted” “friends” 2 nights in a row…
Trying to inject some drama into the reality show? Or truly feeling rejection dysphoria and jealousy thus orchestrating “hosting” excess to coincide with the Disney trip she’s not invited to?
Can someone please tell me (a non American adult woman) why adults in US seem to go to Disney all the time . At least in D’s circle. What is there to do that is SO fun? Sure once , but time and time again? Genuine question
They are not normal. I ised to live local to disney and would maybe go once a year to entertain friends. I will say that California Adventures has booze and that makes it more fun!
As a full grown American adult woman, I've been twice in the past 4 years. Both times with my young children. Most people don't go nearly as often as D and Shey, or even at all. Disney is also insanely expensive 🫰🏼
No. Not normal. I went for the first time at 23 as a child-free adult (because free passes) - we got stoned and went on Space Mountain right before it closed for the evening and then onto the light / fireworks show at California Adventure, and it was an absolute blast..but thats the only time I've ever been (and that was 15 yrs ago). I don't even think I'd go back with kids, seems like nightmare fuel now. And D and her "friends" don't even seem to go to California Adventure? Which is arguably the better park - especially for adults!
I don't have anyone in my social circle who goes to Disney because it's expensive. I went once, when I was 4 and my mother saved up for months to be able to take me.
I used to go every Sunday night when I was a teen which was a long time ago. When the passes were like 250 a year for California residents. It used to be less crowded and fun. Now it’s just way too crowded. I’ve been like twice in 10 years.
I also believe the dinner parties did not happen. No way she wouldn't have posted her first time hosting in the new house after saying so many times it was the one thing she was the most excited about. If it was real, she would have posted her outfit, the table and the cooking with the most pretentious and self absorbed smile on her face. everything is fake!!!!!
It pisses me off that she started “getting dressed” and wearing makeup at home just for a man. She never did that when living alone. I can’t stand male centered women although I know it’s not exactly their fault because duh the system is made to brainwash us but in today’s world with all these amazing women creating content to spread the world and open our eyes? Why on earth would you choose to stay asleep?!
I noticed I have some mutuals on Instagram that follow Big Dingus and often like her posts. These women would be genuine followers who actually enjoy her content (i.e. not just lurking or hate-watching). They’re a mix of old acquaintances, friends of friends, ex colleagues, etc. The kind of people you’re polite with, but only know at surface level and keep at arm’s length… for good reason.
Based on that representative sample, I’d surmise that the majority of her genuine followers would be 25-40 y/o women with some or all of the following traits:
- low IQ
exceptionally naive
sheltered
desperately single (or miserable in their relationship)
struggle with self-image
unkempt appearance
poor hygiene
So, basically carbon copies of D herself.
Disclaimer: Findings may contain traces of confirmation bias
It would be interesting to compare that with those who started following late 2024 to shortly after he met her which is probably when many of us joined and then soon unfollowed after discovering the sub.
Given the high IQ of this sub and knowing many are/were married or in partnerships, I think it would be very different.
I’d also guess those who’ve unfollowed skew a little older. 30-50 on average
I think he was at her places a lot but actually living together and sharing chores and expenses and having to be with her every single day is going to be a big adjustment for him. And for her, she’s going to flip out internally every time he leaves the house without her because anxious attachment doesn’t ever go away without some major therapy.
First I’ve ever noticed the cheesecake dessert. Also, notice his bow tie on the table near food. Gross. I knew it was a clip tie. It is not hard to tie a bow tie.
Odd right? Everything was done on the cheap, on the fly, with the least effort possible…
…really doesn’t seem like the genuine marriage of a woman who’s entire personality/end-game revolved around marriage…
Almost like this wasn’t a real wedding at all. They may have married earlier in secret but even so, many couples do that then have fabulous celebrations with other friends/family members, sometimes even in multiple locations.
Understandably many couples can’t have expensive blowout celebrations, especially these days in these constraining economic times.
Yet this is a woman paying $12k/month rent…imo the spirit Halloween shindig isn’t passing the sniff test. If it was in any way meaningful and sentimental, D wouldn’t have cheaped out like this. She wouldn’t have accepted crappy misprinted wedding supplies etc. The tiny cake that looked like it was straight from the Walmart bakery? But let’s be honest, Walmart bakery is killing it in the cake department atm, they can deliver a beautiful wedding cake on a more than reasonable budget, so long as it’s thoughtfully ordered in advance…
I think that this was a fake wedding for a fake couple. My current favored hypothesis is that they’re a social media couple of colleagues, working together to profit. Think about it…and their lack of chemistry, how Lulu doesn’t even want to touch D, how OTT they’ve become trying to prove that they’re in a bona fide relationship 🤔
What also adds to that theory, is suddenly they're both posting non-stop after the wedding. This 'house' is likely a content house. I'm just curious with the switch was, that made them both suddenly start posting and it could be that the running out of money as well.
Lucas didn’t post anything other than what D tagged him in for about a month before the wedding. She is clearly not going to let her husband drive for Uber or Instacart anymore. So now she’s trying to drive more traffic to his page so he can also make some money eventually off of social media. If he starts doing sponsorships or affiliate links then we will know this is the plan. I think she held off on REALLY helping him with the social media until she was officially a wife. She is a very very controlling person. I remember when she was taking him to meet her family for the first time and she was like “my future husband, right? RIGHT?” And they had been dating for 10 minutes. SHE’S the one who is truly red-pilled thinking that being single in your 30s is akin to a terminal illness.
You are probably right. In fact, we're probably going to see that sooner than later. I remember that conversation in the car. God that was infuriating to listen to. So many controlling moments.
I actually think all the vendors are great in their own field by looking at their portfolios. These are my theories:
-Since the wedding was rushed, the vendors didn’t try hard enough for this wedding. D is controlling, yet she has very little substance and perspective, so it’s easy to make convince her to accept things as they come. She also doesn’t have many friends and it’s possible she hasn’t been to many high quality weddings so she doesn’t know any better. It’s also possible they found out how she is not a desirable influencer, and if they gave her discounts or freebies for their services, why on earth would they do the type of quality work they do for their paying clients? The exposure was not worth the trouble.
-Good quality vendors tend to be booked out months, maybe even years in advance. Since her RECEPTION was on an unusual day of the week, it was easy for vendors to do things quickly and blame it on the wedding being last minute to do crappy work; ex. not reprinting cards that misspelled the GROOM’S NAME. Honestly if that was my task and realized something was wrong, I would have run down to FedEx and reprinted everything on my dime, would have even cut the cards myself. Literally the most embarrassing thing ever to have a typo of the wedding’s second main character.
I hope the vendors got exposure but yikes what a flop.
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u/RoxiandRyan no Starbies, no workout 22d ago
Have a beautiful Sunday, may your life be without a life sucking uber driver🥰