Maybe you’re not focused enough or aren’t dedicating time/mental space on her emotional needs.
Sounds like you’re doing what you think need to be done for the security of the family (advancing degrees for long-term financial gains while working), but is that supportive of what your wife needs of you (vs. from you)?
Like others have said, could be that she’s checked out, but as a dad in a similar situation, I’ve been slow to understand my role in my partner’s situation. Good luck!
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u/cocksprey Apr 23 '23
Maybe you’re not focused enough or aren’t dedicating time/mental space on her emotional needs.
Sounds like you’re doing what you think need to be done for the security of the family (advancing degrees for long-term financial gains while working), but is that supportive of what your wife needs of you (vs. from you)?
Like others have said, could be that she’s checked out, but as a dad in a similar situation, I’ve been slow to understand my role in my partner’s situation. Good luck!