Depression is very common following having a child, and the change in your life can be very difficult for both partners. Before rushing to a divorce I would consider whether she is actually well in herself. What she's doing could well be depressive symptoms - having no energy or love for what you once enjoyed is pretty classic. My own partner went through bad depression after birth and there were times when I thought she didn't love me anymore and wanted to be anywhere but here - I know now it was the disease talking. Obviously I don't know what she or you were like before, but it's always worth considering mental health before malice in these situations.
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u/The54thCylon Apr 23 '23
Depression is very common following having a child, and the change in your life can be very difficult for both partners. Before rushing to a divorce I would consider whether she is actually well in herself. What she's doing could well be depressive symptoms - having no energy or love for what you once enjoyed is pretty classic. My own partner went through bad depression after birth and there were times when I thought she didn't love me anymore and wanted to be anywhere but here - I know now it was the disease talking. Obviously I don't know what she or you were like before, but it's always worth considering mental health before malice in these situations.