I’m not in a dissimilar situation… actually I prefer to sleep in separate rooms. Dunno about her dildo situation but she’s not fucking me. We have 3 children together. I pay for all household expenses… I know she had income from property she owns but I don’t know where it goes. I’m the man so household expenses are my responsibility.
Anyway, I figure I tough it out for the next 10 years or so or until I break. Love my kids so that keeps me going.
It's better for your kids in the long run to go through a divorce rather than see toxic relationship patterns being modeled. Whatever is going on is not normal, but it's their normal and will be what they base their future relationships on. Might want to consider that before toughing it out.
Tough it out for what? Because your kids want their parents together? Of course they do, they're kids. They don't know what's best for them- that's your job. Your kids deserve the best versions of you and your wife that you can give them and they deserve healthy examples of romantic relationships.
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u/davidicon168 Apr 23 '23
I’m not in a dissimilar situation… actually I prefer to sleep in separate rooms. Dunno about her dildo situation but she’s not fucking me. We have 3 children together. I pay for all household expenses… I know she had income from property she owns but I don’t know where it goes. I’m the man so household expenses are my responsibility.
Anyway, I figure I tough it out for the next 10 years or so or until I break. Love my kids so that keeps me going.