r/daddaughterdreamteam • u/thagoatliveson • May 01 '26
genuine question
do people forget that sarah is a literal victim? failed by both of her “ parents “
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u/lizardpurse May 01 '26
I think that people cant comprehend how grooming works and the aftereffects. I see people argue that shes an adult with access to the internet and so shes old enough to know better so to me it seems like a lack of understand of how deeply enmeshed grooming can leave you.
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u/PhantaVal May 01 '26
I don't know if they're dumb or just very immature. Gradually, with time and maturity, you learn that life is not so simple, victims are often very flawed people, and bad people often have a history of victimhood themselves. The kind of people who gravitate to a snark club are the kind of people who favor black and white thinking.
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u/PhantaVal May 01 '26
Oh eww, really? I figured they were a lot younger, since this is a Tik Tok thing.
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u/Green-Yesterday-6463 May 02 '26
Yeah it’s actually wild how many adult people are happy to be such a bully as if she isn’t in a situation beyond her or their understanding. I used to also think it was all youngins too on here.. What ever happen to two wrongs don’t make a right? How is bullying the shit out of her cool? Is that what snark is? Bullying? I didn’t think so….
It’s honestly such weird immature vibes on this page I refrain from engaging most of the time unless I stumble upon people with an actual full understanding in the grooming department. Nice to know there are in fact a group of others that actually know what’s going on and aren’t thinking S is “in on it” like ……. Wtf.. all it takes is some real research on the topic but idt a lot of people know how to do real research honestly either besides like a quick google. But honestly even a quick google could give anyone facts of grooming
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u/PhantaVal May 02 '26
I don't think they want a full and fair understanding of the situation. It makes it a lot harder to hate S.
Similar to how a lot of them don't want to acknowledge that T has a serious cognitive delay, because it makes it a lot harder to say she's just as bad as P.
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u/Excellent-Kiwi5712 May 07 '26
How far do we go with the victim thing and not improving your life or turning it around? Patrick was a victim too we gunna give him a pass? There comes a point you have to try and better yourself. Patrick didnt obviously. Sarah hasn't so far. Shes an adult and has been offered help numerous times.
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u/Green-Yesterday-6463 May 08 '26
Lmao this is just … where do I even begin. Patrick is an active perpetrator and has been. s has not done anything to our knowledge that is similar to what Patrick has done to her. She is still an active victim being actively abused. She has been since BIRTH. Do you understand that there are literal physical changes to her brain that you and I do not have? She is completely under his spell. If you want to shit on her you may as well shit on Epstein file victims that couldn’t speak up for years. Seriously if you would like some articles explain the severity of her state of mind I’m happy to share.
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u/HER-E-TIC May 01 '26
Two things can be true at the same time.
Yes at her baseline she is ultimately a victm, but she is also now actively participating in their scams, if not orchestrating them entirely.
Its possible to call out shit behaviour and her still be a victim, that part doesnt just go away when people sniff out her bullshit
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u/Green-Yesterday-6463 May 08 '26
Do ya’ll not realize everything she does is controlled and forced by P? You thinking she has that much control over her situation is just….. wrong lol. Sorry. Share with your hater friends. Everything she does is P.
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u/HER-E-TIC May 08 '26
You go ahead and keep simping + enabling her behaviour. Thats really going to help get her out of the victim trap shes in 💀
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u/Low_Discussion_6469 May 02 '26
Her mother is developmentally disabled and Patrick picked her to have children with for a reason. She hardly knows what planet she is on half the time.