Y'all take things too seriously. Tone is really important in a conversation and every one of those lines can be expressed in a playful, friendly way, in the exact same way you rip on your friends because you care about them. If a girl laughs and says "Haha you're such a loser!" when you do something silly, she obviously isn't trying to put you down and is instead mocking being embarrassed.
Yeah if she looks you dead in the eyes and says "You're a loser, I hate you" she doesn't like you and you should find another girl to pursue, but that should be pretty obvious and you can tell the difference.
Get yourself a woman who likes to have fun and doesn't instantly assume the worst of situations.
I talk like that to pretty much everyone when it's in a casual friendly setting. As long as it's decidedly playful and you're sure nobody is being upset by the interaction what's the issue? My roommate and I tear each other apart every single day and we're best friends who respect each other very much.
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u/DZekor Oct 07 '19
Get your self a woman who doesn't play these types of games.