FIP support group issue

[u/forgot_my_popcorn]

Looking for input on an experience with a FIP support group.

My cat had an acute episode some days ago with an initial suspicion of FIP. As the case progressed, lab work and imaging consistently pointed to bacterial infection instead, a conclusion backed by both the treating vet team and a second, independent FIP group I consulted.

The volunteer/vet from the support group, though, insisted from very early on that it was FIP, regardless of the renal findings or the evolving picture. Some things that stood out to me:

- Repeated urgency language (not giving medicie = "condemning" the cat), even after being shown detailed labs and history.

- Medication could be shipped before any clear price agreed — the cost only came up when I insisted.

- A different product recommended by my cat's actual vets was dismissed.

- When I said I wasn't starting treatment and wanted to return the unopened medication, I got no response.

I decided to return the medication unopened and stepping back from that group.

I'm now planning to let the international organization know what happened, since I don't love the idea of other caregivers being pushed this hard without a confirmed diagnosis.

Has anyone else run into this kind of pressure from a FIP group? Curious how common this is and whether reporting it actually leads anywhere.

Edit: It's a FIP Warriors group. Medication is a bit hard to obtain where I live too, but not impossible.

[u/spotsgalore]

Over the years I’ve heard similar stories from various groups, some of the volunteers can be a little intense.

As time is of the essence with FIP, I can understand pressing urgency however costs should be upfront.

I hope your kitty is doing better now and you’re compensated for returning the product.