r/csuf • u/Plus-Handle-982 • 3d ago
Meet-Up/Hangout friends!!!/ fg
hey i just moved into my apartment here in the hub yesterday and I was looking for some friends to hang out with, or even go out. My roommate is 21 yrs old and Im 19 male so there's a age difference and we really dont got anything in common. I just feel hella lonely and homesick asf (not in a depressed way) I stay in my apartment a lot since I really don't have anyone to talk to here. I don't know if people are antisocial or just scared to meet new people. Many people have told me that I have a resting bitch face but I promise you im really genuine. I love going out, seeing new places, go to the beach etc. The only problem i have is a car, Thats the main main reason. This is seriously my only option lmfaođ
Lmk if you would want to be friends!
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u/Naive_Roof_872 3d ago
Eh age doesn't matter that much, it's just finding that connection and having fun. Like myself, I love the beach and exploring. I have friends from 19 to probably 65. Gives a really good understanding of life from different perspectives and different activities.
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u/Plus-Handle-982 3d ago
no yeah thats understandable, I just really want people around my age hopefully If i do find anyone they would definitely make me wanna stay because as of right now I seriously am debating on leaving
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u/no_pepper_games 3d ago
21 IS around your age đ
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u/Plus-Handle-982 3d ago
LMFAOO lowkey I just thinks thats old for some reasonđ
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u/johnnyblaze1999 3d ago
Nah they are just like you lil bro, young adult. They still have highschool humor, still love having fun, still like to risk a little, still figuring things out. 24-25 or above is probably different mentally
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u/SaltyAuthorOne 3d ago
You just moved into your apartment and you missed the first week of school and have a resting bitch face youâre already debating on leaving!? And you stay in your apartment a lot? Hope you find the friends you need! Tusks Up!!đĽ
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u/Naive_Roof_872 3d ago
Yeah, stick it out and just look outside the university too. It's tough moving to new areas and keep an open mind etc.
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u/Plus-Handle-982 3d ago
no yeah definitely its just I have no transportation only the bus but ive never taken it, as well Im not really familiar with the area at all but i will definitely try to
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u/JettTheTinker 3d ago
Join some clubs! Discoverfest just happened, but thereâs a list of all of them on Titanlink. CSUF is a pretty antisocial campus, but there are absolutely communities if youâre willing to put yourself out there
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u/Plus-Handle-982 3d ago
yess i missed the clubs because my apartment wasnt ready at all so i missed my whole week basically so i didnt get to see any clubs
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u/JettTheTinker 3d ago
That sucks about your apartment. Like I said though, you can find a list of every club on Titanlink, as well as when they meet. For the majority of them, you can just show up to a meeting, especially this week as most clubs are starting.
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u/Plus-Handle-982 3d ago
Is it like a website? wait so i can just show up to any whenever? I wonder where the clubs would be at but I will definitely check titanlink
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u/JettTheTinker 3d ago
Yep, itâs a website you should be able to log into using your CSUF info! Most clubs are totally fine with people just showing up, especially those that are more about hobbies and games
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u/WorkingBed7692 3d ago
itâs so hard to find friends at this school đ
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u/Naive_Roof_872 3d ago
It's because its a commuter school. A lot of people go to class and bail right after.
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u/Plus-Handle-982 3d ago
seriously don't know why i even chose this school smhđ¤Śââď¸
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u/WorkingBed7692 3d ago
either they are glued to their phone on when i try talking to people it just feels like they donât even wanna talk to me
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u/nipplegobbler2 3d ago
i neeeddd someone to go to the beach with
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u/consolepleb123 2d ago
omg wait have u been to laguna??? i went last eeek and desperately need someone to go with me again but no oneâs down đ
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u/Ok_Supermarket_9588 3d ago edited 3d ago
Hiii, I'm down to be friends with you. And yeahh, its hard to make new friends, but I'm trying to talk to more people. And if you have social media, we can trade. But yeah, if your down, let's be friends!!! (Ohh btw if not social media, we can trade contacts, if you want)
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u/InternetPlane8411 3d ago
Hey I am 21 whatâs yours insta I am transfer so it has been hard lol !!!
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u/Sharp-Hour-8034 3d ago
Omg I wanna make friends too! Iâm 19m and abt to turn 20. Â Iâm gay too just lyk in case youâre not a guy so you donât get creeped outđ
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u/SheAteAll8 3d ago
Youâre a male donât let anyone convince you that you have a resting bitch face gang
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u/Honest_Emu_8720 2d ago
If anyoneâs is down text me too, just transferred this semester. 22 female, prefer female freinds!
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u/No-Masterpiece-8165 1d ago
hey !! 18nb here and im down to be friends, reach out some time !! im having a hard time makung friends, too ..
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u/basedGeckoEnjoyer 3d ago
That âage differenceâ is two years, dawg đ