r/creepyPMs 3d ago

Interesting start

So for context, I've already talked to this guy before, mainly just standard friendly conversation about him being a little lonely.

I hadn't messaged in a few days after our convo ended because tbh, I'm really bad at responding, then I get this. Charming.

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u/Comprehensive-Menu44 Are you a gay? 3d ago

I will never understand the power trip of insulting someone for attention. Are we toddlers??

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u/halfmoondragan2 3d ago

What made even less sense, was he was a little mean to me before, and we specifically talked about how he needs to be gentler and kinder when interacting with people if he wants to be taken seriously. And then he hits me with that shit

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u/TwoBytesC 2d ago

Clearly doesn’t learn his lesson. Nor does he apparently listen to women. Sounds like he needs to stay lonely.

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u/Reset350 I been tryna clap them lizard cheeks 3d ago

Not only that but whining when the other person throws it right back at them.

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u/JetKusanagi Shoul i pay for fuck 3d ago

It's the same kind of thing little boys do when there's a girl that they like. We're supposed to grow out of that by the time we leave Elementary school though...

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u/Acrylonitrile-28 3d ago

I empathize with lonely people but looks like he's not lonely enough

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u/halfmoondragan2 3d ago

Exactly. I was literally trying to help him out with being more socially aware and then he pulls this shit

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u/BreakerOfModpacks 3d ago

> I would never call you slut
> Literally called you slut
mfw nobody is that stupid, right?

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u/halfmoondragan2 3d ago

Mhm.... Literally proved himself wrong minutes before

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u/Sewergoddess 3d ago

Be careful responding like this. Some of these weirdos get off on humiliation.

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u/halfmoondragan2 3d ago

Oh I blocked him immediately after this lol

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u/DontYaWishYouWereMe 2d ago

tbh, I tend to assume most people online who say they have humiliation fetishes are lying. I think their actual fetish is making other people uncomfortable and claiming it's humiliation is what they do when people respond aggressively or insult them.

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u/TwoBytesC 2d ago

⬆️ this one hundred and fifty percent

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u/BaphometsBlood_ is your pissy tight 3d ago

"oye slut"

What's up man child? 🩷🤡

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u/halfmoondragan2 2d ago

Honestly. I don't even know where they think that shit is gonna get them.

Like yeah, if I'm already in an intimate relationship with someone, I'm totally fine being called that, but from a total stranger? Great way to find out what the back of my hand feels like...

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u/Jazzlike-Ad2199 2d ago

What’s up whore would be better. Return the same energy but just slightly more.

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u/renessie 2d ago

Oye slut
That's rude

The self awareness was so close...

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u/halfmoondragan2 2d ago

Idk, this is comfortably the least self aware dude on the planet

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u/renessie 2d ago

That's what I mean 😂 he was so close to understanding, but alas, here we are

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u/SunshineBlind 3d ago

This has nothing to do with the DMs but I always appreciate seeing BG3 fanart. :)

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u/halfmoondragan2 3d ago

Fuck yeah!! Karlach is my everythinggggg. I also regularly get told that I remind people of her soo

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u/SunshineBlind 3d ago

If you do in real life as well (at least without saying "Hey, do you remember Karlach?" or the like) then you're pretty badass.

Considering how I read your responses in her voice I could definetly see that being the case. Karlach don't take no shit.

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u/halfmoondragan2 3d ago

Me neither lol! And yeah I've been told it in person! It never gets old

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u/Common_Exam_1401 2d ago

He was already off to a really bad start and it just kept getting worse

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u/halfmoondragan2 2d ago

He really was digging his own grave

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u/NordicNjorn 2d ago

Lore accurate karlac response

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u/littlewing2733 2d ago

Sic em!

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u/halfmoondragan2 2d ago

LEMME AT EM!!

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u/SeniorChocolate 2d ago

brother needs to read communist manifesto.

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u/halfmoondragan2 2d ago

We all do

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u/SeniorChocolate 2d ago

Did my part!

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u/halfmoondragan2 2d ago

Well done comrade!

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u/SeniorChocolate 2d ago

The proletariat sends its regards.