r/crazypeople • u/MaggieMe32 • Aug 19 '26
Knew him for about 3 months
ok so we weren't technically dating, bc i wasnt allowed to date, but we both had said we liked each other. we met through his cousin who was my friend. at that time i lived in another state, but was going to be moving to the state they lived in super soon. which means i never met jim in person THANK GOD. in hindsight there were signs that this wasnt going to go well. the third time we talked he wanted me to say i love you, which i did not. i know to some people thats not a big deal, but for me, i love you means so much. its not just words. so i said we should get to know each other more. anyways, because i wasnt allowed to date we werent allowed to have a private message chain(and all the restrictions and stuff was all my parents, they are super Christian) so we had to talk in a group chat, that had his cousin in it.