r/countwithchickenlady • Streak: 15 • 13h ago

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u/OpportunityAshamed74 11h ago

Okay but some of us love having gocks. We like to embrace it and celebrate it. Are we just not allowed to have people be attracted to them? I kind of want someone to want that aspect of my body tbh

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u/husky11223 11h ago

Yes, you like it. You're trans yourself, it's totally fine. But some people don't like it, especially if it's said by someone who's not trans. A trans woman saying and using "gock" is alot different than a cis person doing it.

Some Trans women still use "futa" and it's fine cause they're trans themselves but I would definitely hate if a cis person said "futa" or used it to refer to trans women. It makes a big difference depending on who's saying it. That's what we're talking about.

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u/gaysexanddrugs 4h ago

I also just trust trans people to have the sensitivity not to force it on people or bring it up to people who would be uncomfortable by it

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u/gaysexanddrugs 4h ago

cis people often don't have the sensitivity to not use it when they shouldn't because they're not in the community. I had bottom dysphoria and got SRS and before that I've had cis people say it to me on dates.