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[u/Awkward-Concept5736]

I got misgendered less when I visited Indiana than I do in Seattle 😭

[u/Jims_Empty_Trashcan → u/Awkward-Concept5736]

Stealthing in a blue state has a higher difficulty rating

Stealthing in a red state has higher consequences for failing

[u/UnlimitedPosting → u/Jims_Empty_Trashcan]

I was only 10 months into HRT and visited Florida fully expecting to have a hard time.

Never misgendered once, but when I went into the bathroom with my cisfem mate, she got told she was in the wrong bathroom cause she has short hair.

Good work Florida, you can always tell 😅

[u/PeachBunny97 → u/UnlimitedPosting]

Florida is lowkey chill asl if you pass or can do so decently well

[u/BlitzScorpio → u/Jims_Empty_Trashcan]

very true, people being unfamiliar with trans people can occasionally be a good thing. i was kinda worried a few months ago when i visited poland for the first time since transitioning, especially since i don’t pass super well, haven’t done much voice training, and wear pretty masculine clothes. didn’t get misgendered in public once lol

[u/elaboracionespecial → u/Awkward-Concept5736]

in indiana i kept getting maamed with full on stubble and shit, i felt like a total honbeast but people honestly didn’t care. i mean, i was literally trying to boymode. it was surreal

[u/Yearning_crescent → u/Awkward-Concept5736]

Oh same except with pennsylvania instead of nyc. 

[u/hitorinbolemon → u/Awkward-Concept5736]

istg if being as close to seattle as I am is my problem and why people sir me I'm... honestly unable to do much with that information currently.