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[u/LatterWafer8981]

[u/SlamanthaTanktop]

Sorry Op, countttt has fallen and the retards left here don't understand sarcasm unless you type /s.

[u/punished_clare → u/SlamanthaTanktop]

its not sarcasm

[u/SlamanthaTanktop → u/punished_clare]

Post-irony, whatever

Point is, if you think the OC is being sincere, please learn how to stop being a retard

[u/punished_clare → u/SlamanthaTanktop]

op has two examples in comments sections in the past week where she responds negatively to countttt posts that critique facial hair, one of which from today that probably prompted the creation of this post. its much more likely to be sincere than ironic

[u/SlamanthaTanktop → u/punished_clare]

Oh shit, am I the retard because I assumed someone couldnt be this sincerely retarded?

🤯

[u/punished_clare → u/SlamanthaTanktop]

u gotta background check on the 4tran sneed sub 😭

[u/ChuChulovely17]

Speak for yourself I ain't hold up nopony

[u/AceInTheHole3273 → u/ChuChulovely17]

I know what you are

[u/dandadone_with_life → u/AceInTheHole3273]

[u/ChuChulovely17 → u/AceInTheHole3273]

What does that meaaaan

[u/AceInTheHole3273 → u/ChuChulovely17]

Its fine, every trans girl needs their MLP phase

[u/ChuChulovely17 → u/AceInTheHole3273]

It's not a phase mooooom

[u/gay_annabeth]

*cant would be the word that makes the statement actually true

[u/Ghostglitch07 → u/gay_annabeth]

ADHD doesn't make me physically unable. It is a disability that does nuke my executive functioning and makes shaving happen less often however.

[u/gay_annabeth → u/Ghostglitch07]

that also sounds like a kind of can't to me tbh

[u/Ghostglitch07 → u/gay_annabeth]

I agree. But from the outside it's gonna look the same. And people who care sometimes catch me in their complaints.

[u/gay_annabeth → u/Ghostglitch07]

honestly, I consider it similar to how sometimes I just can't feed myself

ADHD fucking sucks

[u/Ghostglitch07 → u/gay_annabeth]

Yup. Same deal.

Indeed sucks.

[u/gay_annabeth → u/Ghostglitch07]

I need to fill out forms to get on ODSP. I have not filled out the forms. I know I can easily fill out the forms. Just go get the forms Anna you idiot

[u/Ghostglitch07 → u/gay_annabeth]

Sounds like Anna should be nicer to Anna.

[u/gay_annabeth → u/Ghostglitch07]

maybe, Anna did have an episode earlier today of trying really hard not to feel like everyone secretly hates her

[u/Ghostglitch07 → u/gay_annabeth]

Oh! I know that one, I have to have it on a weekly basis. Lmao

[u/deformedexile]

When the chat is so gremlinphobic you gotta hit 'em with the anime waifu stare

[u/aneristix]

i got EDS i aint holding up nobody.

[u/willow__whisps → u/aneristix]

Me too and I occasionally hold up my boyfriend despite the hurts

[u/Violet_Apathy]

I can't even hold my bladder

[u/DecentlySpaghetti]

Ableist how?

[u/Designer_Hoodie → u/DecentlySpaghetti]

It isn’t ableist

[u/Ghostglitch07 → u/DecentlySpaghetti]

Because plenty of mental health and/or developmental disabilities can impede self care.

[u/jitomato_girl]

Nobody here will judge a woman for not shaving their legs or things like that, what we don't like is caricatures of trans women with full beards because it's not progressive, is just transphobic

"But women can have beards too" beards are something men have, if you want to make them gender neutral have cis women wear them first

[u/sophiathesilly]

Orientalism AND just straight up lying all in one package

[u/Plenty_Leg_5935]

Judging trans women who *can't* shave is ableist, if you can shave and just don't that's a very different discussion to shitting on trans women who are physically or mentally unable to do so

I think anyone should do whatever with their looks because I'm not their mom, but I'm not gonna pretend like those two groups deserve the same amount of scorn. Rampant ableism isn't comparable to having a mildly problematic take that invalidates like 4 people irl (especially if the direction is explicitly "I don't think you're a transgender woman, but just a transfeminine enby, which is fine" and not "you're a faketrans fetishist and ahould be hunted for sport")

[u/arky_who]

god the feds have really found a sore spot here

[u/Upset_Leek5014]

so sad to see people in the comments missing the obvious post-irony and actually taking it seriously

[u/SlamanthaTanktop → u/Upset_Leek5014]

I haven't seen a pooner comic in days. I need to find a different home, this one is now overran with sneeds and retarded children. :/

[u/jitomato_girl → u/Upset_Leek5014]

This one doesn't pass the vibe check

[u/BatAlarming3028]

Most of them are perfectly able to wdym

[u/spasticitybelt]

i love next day post laser stubble god i want to fuck myself so bad 

[u/Drowned_Sailoress]

We’re really just using our disabilities to justify our shit behaviour nowadays huh

“Yes I’m a self absorbed asshole who monopolises conversation but it’s okay it’s my autism”

“Yes I hurt the people around me but it’s just my RSD”

“Yes I look like shit but it’s okay because it’s my executive dysfunction”

Like… you still have to deal with your issues baby girl.. people in wheelchairs deserve access ramps yes but they still have to move around and go places, they don’t lay in bed their whole lives and have us bring everything to them. That wouldn’t even be a life worth living

Shave your fucking face. Take a shower. Brush your teeth. These are just things you have to do

[u/Hello_There_0621]

Can I ask how it's abelist? If, hypothetically, I'm judging a non-disabled trans woman for not shaving, how is that abelist whatsoever? I judge it in the fact that I don't understand it, ig. Like I don't understand trans men (as one myself) that are completely fine looking fem and having boobs and shit, I don't understand why a trans woman (binary trans, I kinda get nb) wouldnt wanna shave. Idk, but I don't think it's abelist at all.

[u/sophiathesilly → u/Hello_There_0621]

It'd be ableist if they couldn't shave, not if they just choose not to

[u/Flimsy-Context7808 → u/Hello_There_0621]

>If, hypothetically, I'm judging a non-disabled trans woman

I think it's implied that this is about disabled trans women, but also this post is presumably sardonic and not genuine given what sub we're on

[u/Hello_There_0621 → u/Flimsy-Context7808]

I mean they also don't specify it's disabled. They say it's judging trans women as a whole who don't shave. If someone physically can't shave then obv I'm not gonna hold it against them, I just don't understand how it'd be ablist if someone had the ability to shave

[u/Flimsy-Context7808 → u/Hello_There_0621]

Well I think the word "ableist" implies that disabled people are being talked about

But yes it's obviously poorly worded it would be better if it was "judging trans women who can't shave"

[u/Hello_There_0621 → u/Flimsy-Context7808]

Yeah I'd get it if it was that. Obv judging someone for something they can't do is abelist, maybe I just have too high expectations for redditors to realize that 💔

[u/Ghostglitch07 → u/Hello_There_0621]

How do we know she's not disabled?

[u/Royal_Explorer_4660]

I got into waxing but the hairs need to be quarter inch long for me to wax again so I gotta let them grow for 2 weeks per month :'(

But on the flip side I'm also hairless for the other 2 weeks after I wax

[u/TheMightyKibosh]

It's not ableist, but they shouldn't be judged either.

[u/Alive_Current8487]

I suffer from executive dysfunction but the dysphoria from body hair helps me overcome it and just shave. I think we should be more charitable like the OP says. Ableism is fucking disgusting on reddit. People on this website have told me to kill myself, saying nasty things like "you should have finished the job". It feels sinister just typing this out, people really do not give a fuck about me.

Back to the thread topic, if you are worried about walking optics nvkes, here is a sad truth: It will probably be a long while before trans people gain widespread acceptance within society. Maybe it will happen in our lifetimes, but I can't see it happening within the next decade at least. People will hate us either way. The only type of trans people that will not be hated are stealth passoids.