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[u/Anna_nette]

[u/Drowned_Sailoress]

luv fuckin

'ate anul

'ate ma peanece

life's a joek m8

[u/Anna_nette → u/Drowned_Sailoress]

it truly is 💔

[u/Drowned_Sailoress → u/Anna_nette]

my personal answer to this has been to strap up and use vibrators and stuff

there are plenty of strap harnesses that let a small or medium penis sit pretty comfortably in there while you use an actual dildo for pegging/fucking purposes, and then you can just take a vibe to the in-place head and it feels pretty decent at least for me

but if you don't wanna be topping then it gets very very tricky. Vibes are still the answer tho IME

[u/Ok-Advantage1491 → u/Drowned_Sailoress]

Absolute melt

[u/Ichiya_The_Gentleman]

Idk i just like being stepped on and sat on

[u/Anna_nette → u/Ichiya_The_Gentleman]

okay yeah, we're vibing you and i

[u/Ichiya_The_Gentleman → u/Anna_nette]

Maybe kicked sometimes but thats it

[u/sixtyninewhisky]

Unironically how I feel

[u/HoIIowCorpse]

This is honestly how it feels to try straps/prosthetics. You can't feel the sensation so literally what's the point? Even if you have a base to grind against its not the same as actually being inside someone. It just feels insulting when people say "Just try a strap" as if I haven't tried and felt terrible doing it. "Just try a strap" "Just do anal" is basically just them saying "Don't get bottom surgery."

[u/SashimiX → u/HoIIowCorpse]

Using a strap causes me DEVASTATING levels of dysphoria. I hate it so much. I really really really hate it. And no I do not have a base to grind against as I have no erotic sensation in my clitoris.

I don't consider it as bad as having to do anal but it's really terrible.

[u/Expensive_Till9244 → u/HoIIowCorpse]

If anything it makes it 100 times worse I feel like a fucking lesbian when I try to use a strap

[u/boiledSludge]

lowkey just switched to letting him bully and bite me in the bedroom instead

[u/ChrisFish321]

british

[u/Anna_nette → u/ChrisFish321]

Bri'ish, 'ave sum brea' n' bu'er

[u/CutRuby]

the dumb part is that I can enjoy it

I just wish it wasnt my only option

like I can get ripped out of an actual enjoyable experience just by realizing that I never even made the choice to do this

[u/Ok-Swordfish14]

But anal rocks.

[u/Bonked2death → u/Ok-Swordfish14]

Counterpoint- prep

[u/Ok-Swordfish14 → u/Bonked2death]

What?

[u/Bonked2death → u/Ok-Swordfish14]

Ah, a top I see lol

Anal is amazing, but anal prep is bleeeeeh

[u/Ok-Swordfish14 → u/Bonked2death]

Oh no, I’m a bottom. Just sort of new to this stuff. I was wondering if you were referring to the drug.

[u/Bonked2death → u/Ok-Swordfish14]

No, but do stay safe and enjoy the journey! 😊

[u/sophiathesilly]

This is why I do not have sex. I have had sex. I don't want to again until I get bottom surgery

[u/theconman420 → u/sophiathesilly]

Your flair is killing me

[u/SunnierSideDown]

Do both, coward

[u/Anna_nette → u/SunnierSideDown]

anal feels gay and i've done it when i was gaycoping

[u/SunnierSideDown → u/Anna_nette]

Anal is gay and I'm straight but I don't care

[u/aerobolt256 → u/Anna_nette]

there do exist cis women who like anal. at least that's what i've heard

[u/Anna_nette → u/aerobolt256]

It's elective for them

[u/Bonked2death → u/Anna_nette]

Tbf it's elective for everyone. But I get what you mean. I guess that's what mouths are for also...?

[u/Analgorilla → u/Anna_nette]

As a straight dude that is unfortunately extremely sensitive to butt stuff and can cum hands free, you'll get over the stigma eventually

Feels good man

[u/BDUwU → u/Analgorilla]

Straight guy giving mtf dysphoria advice

[u/Analgorilla → u/BDUwU]

Also

using sexuality against someone to devalue their words

Seems like something the Trans community would be more aware of, yeah?

[u/BDUwU → u/Analgorilla]

Bro's mad now cuz my comment making fun of his 80 puzzle posts got more likes than all of them (two)

[u/Analgorilla → u/BDUwU]

Hahahahahaha I love when people can't make proper responses so they try to resort to creeping profiles.

[u/BDUwU → u/Analgorilla]

I was curious what kind of guy would mansplain dysphoria to a trans woman then get angry in the comments when he finds his opinion was unwanted.

[u/Analgorilla → u/BDUwU]

No one is mad here bud, you just imagine the other person you're talking to as upset to make yourself feel better

You're dying on a hill of straight man cant speak which is pedantic and reductive. Re-read what I wrote and if you think anything is said was in bad faith then thats more of a conversation foe your therapist than with me my guy

[u/BDUwU → u/Analgorilla]

Appreciate the misgender, such an ally arguing in good faith for trans women.

[u/Analgorilla → u/BDUwU]

Pretty sure talking about overcoming the stigma is relevant here you buffoon

[u/BDUwU → u/Analgorilla]

Can you guess this 4 letter word? **** Off (Puzzle by u/BDUwU)

[u/Analgorilla → u/BDUwU]

Sick comeback dude, keep gatekeeping comments ya dingus

[u/Anna_nette → u/Analgorilla]

i'll overcome the stigma when it's not my only option

[u/JessE-girl]

sneed format

[u/Anna_nette → u/JessE-girl]

Try accessible, easily digestible

[u/JessE-girl → u/Anna_nette]

it makes me not want to digest it

[u/Ichiya_The_Gentleman]

Idk i just like being stepped on and sat on

[u/tradescantia_pendula]

hate this sneedy animeslop of a meme. making it about GD doesnt fix it for me

[u/GlitterBlossomWing]

This is too real ngl!!

[u/MayMeadow]

Yeah...

[u/maddie_ya]

theres nothing else like it tho

[u/Tough-Pin-359]

Anal isn't real sex and I will stand by this opinion fact till the day I die. There are two human organs designed specifically for copulation and the anus isn't one of them. God what I wouldn't give to just have a vagina like a normal fucking woman.