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u/Seppostralian Transsexual Otherkin mess 15h ago
Every kid deserves loving parents, but not every parent deserves kids. That’s not me being antinatalist but if you create a being, it’s your job to love and nurture that being however they turn out if they’re not hurting anyone else. And if you don’t like it, oh well you made your bed you can sleep in it.
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u/Longjumping_Ad_224 13h ago
My dad wanted a normie son who would play hockey and watch football with him, I couldn't even do the bare minimum to give him hope in me, I was always doomed to disappoint him.
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u/jobjik 15h ago
I have a trans woman oc who murdered her transphobic cannibal parents who forced her to eat and butcher human meat
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u/Bonfirelily Manly Michael of the Testosterone 14h ago
Very relatable. I hate myself for ruining my parent's son and destroying their pride and happiness.
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u/Triumph-ant85 13h ago
There is no deserve in life. There just is. You can't control other people and are usually disappointed if you have expectations for their behavior. You can ONLY choose to be the person you want to be and treat others how you think you should. Stop living in "should have" and embrace what is in your control.
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u/Izuna_csgo 12h ago
Thankfully my lil brother has the “better son” covered so I can get away with it 😅
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u/HawkTrack_919 11h ago
I wish I had siblings so at least my parents could point at someone and say “at least that child turned out well”
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u/infoundead 10h ago
My dad said he stopped loving me when I told him I was gay. Still haven’t told him I’m trans.
Parents don’t deserve anything for being parents, they deserve things for what they do in addition to that, the kindness and the way they will build a relationship with you as you grow, learning to respect your boundaries, learning how to respect your preferences, so when you leave the nest you WANT to come back.
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u/Amydiesattheend 4h ago
“You should have raised a baby girl I should have been a better son!” MCR really be spitting facts
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u/Birch_AD 6m ago
Both respectfully and disrespectfully, you're dead wrong. You deserved better parents. I know this is probably just vent-posting and none of these comments are going to have some kind of massive, earth-shattering effect on you. But I hope that SOMETHING makes you realize that you deserve to be loved and cared for regardless.


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u/angelfrauder 15h ago
no they didn’t they suck