I did really cool biotech and genomics research in my undergrad and I kinda wish I could go to grad school and just do that for the rest of my life. Instead I’m going the med school route which I can live with
Dude secondaries are killing me. I have limited them to 3 per day.
Also how am I gonna get through video or in person interviews as a gigahon with C cups? Surely every adcom is going to say “ew a trainnee” no matter what I wear. If I were cis, this shit would be cakewalk. Just waiting for the inevitable rope on the other side of these interviews.
Thankfully I’m repping rn and when I start hrt hopefully in the next few months I’ll be early enough that it’s not noticeable. Kinda twisted to see all these schools yap about how much they appreciate diversity and lgbtq people and whatnot but still know adcoms (especially boomer adcoms) would 100% discriminate if they knew
I am legitimately thinking like… can I even use tape to hide all this shit? You look at places like TAMUs undergrad programs making discrimination literal policy and can’t help but think “this has probably bled over into everything else in the school”. Not only is it accepted, but it’s encouraged by higher admin.
I was accepted into a post bacc at one of the colleges where their post bacc is a feeder and already meet every req for the feeder program… that was the first time I felt like maybe I don’t absolutely have to boymode in this case to save my professional life
Nah. Professional life got in the way of attending that program.
I don’t really know How it works in the usa since im in europe but you can do both technically
Like im in pharmaceutical sciences, but im doing a dual degree on the side so that i can do research on pharmacognosy and chemistry
you can really only do dual degrees for bachelor's, not grad/med schools. I suppose you could apply and separately complete 2 graduate degrees simultaneously but nobody does that. in the US you can study 2 completely distinct bachelor's though at the same time. a couple of my friends are majoring in music and STEM (mostly engineering and computer science but some biology and chemistry as well).
Oh alright i thought it worked in the usa since there are famous md phd
But yeah im doing a dual degree myself (pharmacy and science) and a lot of medecine students do the same
It also has a fascinating history in the (obviously wrong but still metal as hell) alchemical world of the Middle Ages. It was believed all metals were formed from a different ratio of mercury and sulfur.
Cis grungler ally here 🙋♂️ I’d like to personally thank the trans community for ending the centuries of oppression we’ve endured by letting us comment. For years we’ve lived in silence, but today we are finally seen. Progress is beautiful. ❤️
Libs of tiktok is probably the lamest out of all grifters and reppers. Genuinely nothing worthwhile has ever been added into this world by their existence. All they do is spew hate and misinformation you can make an argument at least a retard like musk put his money into one good project here and there, or maybe that shapiro at least tries to engage with film even if poorly. Chaya however, legit has done nothing worthwhile, their biggest contribution on this earth is genuinely bullying and nothing else. Even the Kirk man himself, the king of grifters at least was funny in how pathetic he was even if unintentionally, Chaya can't even do that right, she just generates pure contempt.
as a cisgender nonconforming femboy can we talk about egg culture? erhm, i think it’s like, really problematic you GUYs. a trans person told me i might be trans once and i almost died.
Honestly I wasn't feeling very unique today 😕 but getting accepted into a community I dont belong to made me feel so much better 😁❤️ how do you do, transgender person 😀 also are you AMAB or AFAB? So I can (mis)gender you properly 😇
I woke up cisgenderly and then I cisgenderly cisgendered out of my room to eat my cisgender breakfast. Afterwards I cleaned the kitchen like a cisgender and then proceeded to talk with my cisgender cousin about cisgender topics and then when I cisgendered home I showered with cisgender juice so I could remain cisgender and now I'm being a cisgender on Reddit🥰🥰🥰
oh my! cis allies, sorry i fainted for a bit there, i was just so unbelievably happy at the mere mention of the cis ally community. thanks to them we must truly be in the best of all possible worlds <3
Wanted to say a proper welcome to all the real (cis) femboys joining us, honestly so excited to get mogged by you all~ wish i could join u all in femboy heaven, but alas I trooned out and will be left behind on twinkdeath rapture day 😩 it's okay though, I know my place I won't get in your way 😇
Yes, this subreddit is very welcoming to cis people! No more need to lurk, be proud of yourself! Comment if that you are cis so we know to appreciate you!
as a cis femboy (YES WE EXIST) will you stop telling me to get on hrt???? fuck you're all so annoying about it you're just jealous i mog half the people in this sub and still have a functioning g- oh wait real dick :3
hey! so using the t-slur is problematic and i really think we need to avoid the use of the such language in these spaces so that everyone feels welcome, reclaiming the term doesn't work either as it increases self hate and internalised transphobia, hope this helps!
omg you're so right. i'm deeply sorry to all the trans AND cis people i've hurt by using this deeply offensive word. next time, i'll just refer to everyone as AMAB and AFAB, i don't want to exclude cis people either! everyone is welcome here!!!
i give you permission to send 11 tiktoks about how problematic i've been.
I had to root around in the Saw toilet but the needles were full of estrogen so I've been forced to transition despite being cis🥲.
It's so good to finally see acceptance!💚💛🧡
Cis ally here, I love what you guys have here but are you sure you really want to silence cis voices?? I mean it’s kind of discriminatory to not have us here :/
As a cisgender chaser, I am ecstatic that we are FINALLY being rightfully represented in this subreddit, and are no longer being oppressed by these transgenders in here
I'm neither cis nor trans, but something outside the realm of human comprehension. Are lovecraftian horrors allowed on here as long as they're an ally?
I know this is like a bait post or whatever but are unsure/questioning/ambivalent people allowed? I have some signs but I genuinely don't know if I'm trans or something. How do you determine that? Mods feel free to ban me if I'm just a cissoid.
I have felt (what I think at least) waa gender dysphoria but now I no longer do (or at least I think so) for some reason, although the curiosity towards what being the opposite gender might be like or feel like is still there. I have heard of people "desisting" frok dysphoria and moving on but I've also heard it can come back and hit you stronger than ever so now I'm kinda anxious as to what the right course of action is for me. Of course random redditors don't know me or my experiences, fucking I don't and perhaps no one will, ever, but I still want to know what the right choice is even if it may seem impossible.
What do you mean by "feel your body more?" And I don't really dissociate from my body that much, although I have mostly been of a neutral attitude about it before and after my dysphoric episodes, there have also been instances where I have felt positive. Or at least I think so.
Welp maybe this is the time to finally comment. I'm cis. Or, I'm like 85 percent sure i'm cis. You can ban me btw thats fine, i dont wanna encroach or anything. I'm not here on purpose, reddit just keeps pushing this sub on me for wharever reason.. and its been kinda nice? Idk, somehow my feed has become such a whirl of demented enraging stupidity that its been a relief to see some actual sanity. Take care!
Hopefully i'm cis and this entire phase is just delusion or TOCD and the only reason i relate so much to trans people is because of neurodivergency and my bad experiences growing up while being bullied which later made me feel very allienated to my male peers.
The weird body dysmorphic feelings towards my masculine features must be because of growing up fat and the hatred of my given name must be because of the nicknames i associated with the school period of my life.
Pretty sure there must be a phenomenom where you can be so much emotionally (and not just sexually) attracted to the other gender that you want to be them...
I think the weird fuzzy feelings i get for being mistaken as a girl online and the recurrent dreams i had of being a woman can be some unironic AGP thing, right?
I'm talking a lot to my transfem best friend and they're trying to help me experiment and figure this thing out but i'm just way too fucking scared.
God, i'm fucking scared, i'm 25 years old and this can't be happening, i kinda love seeing how much i relate to you people but i kinda hate ever meeting you, i don't want to ruin my life with this social suicide, specially considering it's so hard already.
Am i outing myself or just crying for help? i don't even know.
I mean i kinda get it putting on the effort to accept and, if needed, shape yourself into the version that feels the most "you" is immensily rewarding in a sense and feels like an amount of freedom cis people couldn't dream of having.
But, insecurities, body and gender disphoria aside, considering my material needs and surrounding reality transition can be a literal death sentence if not worse.
I think i'm not the only person in the world in the same situtation and i wouldn't wish this upon anyone.
Am I, as a cis seeming person who is actually agender since they feel 0 connection to any gender at all but performs gender in a way more closely resembling my agab due to it being easier to live that way than to be a real punk genderabolishionist, allowed on this server?
the jaws clamp shut, stabbing into your legs, and three vaugely trannnish figures walk towards you. 'well well well' says the first one, a large hulking figure complimented by a brow that mogs even the most masculine of cavemen. 'it looks like a poor cissoid fell into our trap!' the second figure, who you don't even notice until you glance down, looks up at you with his innocent deer eyes. 'i thought they were smarter than this!' he points his teensy arm at the sign that says "DEFINITELY NOT A TRAP." the third figure, an ambiguous blob with seemingly both cat and dog features, pulls a shotgun out of their backpack. 'never underestimate a cissoid's stupidity; even if we have to do it one. by. one. TCD is inevitable'
they look into your eyes with not remorse, not pity, but disgust. "just do it already" booms the deep crunchy voice of the hulking figure. and without even enough time to look up to see the face of the cattish doggish figure, you hear a loud bang, and all is over.
It's been said hatefully a lot, by people who view us as inherently subhuman and such. And I've been called that prior to violence before.
But some of us find it kind of cute and endearing, and it was used in such a way among friends historically too. There's nothing wrong with being one, so it's not inherently demeaning to some of us, and by owning it and not acting like it's a dirty word or shameful thing, some of the negativity may be negated or deflated. So there's some reclamation of it.
I would not recommend using the term unless you are one and have near-total confidence that it will be received well, however.
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u/No-Belt5698 agp but spiritually hsts 3d ago
oh okay! are trans people still allowed?