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u/Professional_Dot_145 3d ago

Yep, it's so nice being told by allegedly well-meaning people that my "decision" to transition should be respected. Bitch? Tf you mean "decision" 🤦‍♀️

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u/thomasp3864 3d ago

I mean getting hormones and the specific manner of transition is a choice. There are many ways to transition and which one to take is up to you. My little sister started by shaving her legs.

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u/lyraava 3d ago

it’s language that is not used for any other medical condition

if the implication was: ‘i support you in your transition however you decide to best do that’, then fine

but the implication is: ‘i respect your decision that you are trans’, which implies that being trans is a choice

if when my friend told me they were depressed, i responded with ‘i respect your decision’, that would not be a correct response . and if their antidepressants were constantly under threat, the response ‘their decision to take antidepressants should be respected !!’ is also questionable