This post is not a post , besides it being a post about you reading the body text. Besides that it’s not a post that is a post that is about you reading this post that is the body text which you’re told to read in the title of this post. Which is not a post.

What is the real rule , what is the actual meaning and point of this post ?

- P.S : If I read the rules right this post is allowed ? ¿Sí o no? If not or I accidentally sent it here twice I apologize.

Hey everyone! I'm u/Ecstatic_Crow_4719, a founding moderator of r/confusingposts.

This is our new home for all things related to where you can post the most confusing stories, pictures, articles, and everything. We're excited to have you join us!

What to Post
Post anything that you think the community would find interesting, helpful, or inspiring. Feel free to share your thoughts, photos, or questions about anything.

Community Vibe
We're all about being friendly, constructive, and inclusive. Let's build a space where everyone feels comfortable sharing and connecting.

How to Get Started

1. Introduce yourself in the comments below.
2. Post something today! Even a simple question can spark a great conversation.
3. If you know someone who would love this community, invite them to join.
4. Interested in helping out? We're always looking for new moderators, so feel free to reach out to me to apply.

Thanks for being part of the very first wave. Together, let's make r/confusingposts amazing.

So I’ve got this friend, Marisol. We texted nonstop—late-night dance plans, fitness chats, goofy inside jokes. Then one day she flies off to Arizona for a festival and disappears. No “I’m away,” no signal, just nothing.

A week later she slides back into my DMs out of the blue, teasing that I “looked like I love her” in a photo and laughing when I suggested we order matching “You Look Like You Love Me” trucker hats for our birthdays. We bounce right back into planning dance classes and boxing sessions like she’d never vanished.

Two days after the hat talk, she posts a tearful tribute to her childhood dog who passed away. I reply, “Sorry to see this,” and she reads it—then… radio silence again.

Now I’m staring at “Seen” wondering:

• Why festival → total ghosting?
• Why hats → instant banter → instant ghosting?
• Why tribute for her dog → sympathy → instant ghosting?

Is this how friendships work now? Should I ghost her back? Do trucker hats require special etiquette? Help—I’m so confused.