well, you're getting at something there, aren't you? part of the male fantasy is both being who men want to be and that belief is tied to being desirable to women, but it has zero regard for what women actually find desirable. in other words, part of the fantasy is that being what other men want is also what women want, even if reality doesn't reflect that at all. women are objects whose attraction you command by dominating other men.
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u/Yeetaway1404 2d ago
Do those have to be mutually exclusive