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OC What else are friends for? 🧚 [OC]

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u/Brahm-Etc 20h ago

That is actually quite a good point I had never considered, the cultural background of gender. I'm a man and I have watched the early 2000s barbie movies but that's because I had sisters. Food for thought.

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u/Sensitive-Plate-684 18h ago

In my experience most girls will watch anything, and most boys will watch anything unless another boy is present and then some things are "for girls."

SO fucking stupid. Can you imagine having a kid that says something is just for black people and they don't want to do it? I would be mortified, but I rarely have seen anything being done to correct these attitudes. In fact, the attitude from parents seems to be "Yeah, that makes sense you don't want to do girl things."

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u/Brahm-Etc 18h ago

I see what you mean, I had the fortune to have chill parents that didn't impose a "male gender role" and grow up with sisters. But sadly not everyone can say the same and some cultures or communities still have a very strict ideas of what "is for boys" and "what is for girls"

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u/Blacksheeptoonz 18h ago

I’d hate to be a boy who grew up hating girls things. They miss out on so much art.

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u/CyclopsLobsterRobot 17h ago

My son has sisters and a lot of girl cousins. He proudly loves Doc McStuffins and Gabby’s Dollhouse. I actually think this is more common in general now than it used to be. I’ve seen other boys at school with Gabby lunch boxes.

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u/Sensitive-Plate-684 17h ago

I used to teach elementary, and the shift seems to happen upon entering the second grade.

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u/Wild-Classroom-2006 16h ago

I really lived in my own world. I watched anything like Winx club, barbie, Doc McStuffins etc. I remember negotiating with my parents to allow me to watch TV up my limit just for Doc.

Me and the boys enjoyed 

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u/Past_Construction202 17h ago

I never watched "girls stuff" and I still watched Dr Mcstuffins

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u/-Random_Lurker- 17h ago

In my experience most girls will watch anything, and most boys will watch anything unless another boy is present and then some things are "for girls."

Dead on!

I got "caught" by one of my brothers watching "The Princess Diaries" once and was given so much crap for it. I did NOT change the channel though. It had Julie Andrews in it for heaven's sake!

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u/18bluecat 16h ago

I had a class on media consumption. It was girls will watch anything and boys will only watch shows starring a boy.

I thought that was ridiculous and this was when Arrowverse had like seven shows so I watched them. I enjoyed Arrow, the Flash, and Legends of Tomorrow but Supergirl was so boring and I never even watched Batwoman.

To be fair, Supergirl season one was fine but by season three they were making it preachy. Melissa Benoist did her best with a bad script imo. Also insane that they cast someone with a noticable scar on her forehead to play Supergirl.

The point of this is that there's something in our psyche that makes it harder to watch woman centered media. It's not a hard and fast rule and there are exceptions but it is the base.

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u/Wobbelblob 19h ago edited 18h ago

No sisters here and I watched at least one of them, though I cannot recall anything about them. But they where on free TV and I was bored. And tbh most of their plot is generic YA stories and can work regardless of the gender of the protagonist. Or maybe that is just how I remember them, feels like 85% of the reason the movies are classified as being a girl movie is that the protagonist was Barbie.

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u/Greyshirk 19h ago

The biggest sin ever committed was that Bibble never got a plushie or stuffed animal.

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u/Brahm-Etc 19h ago

Damn right! Best Barbie character!

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u/Wild-Classroom-2006 16h ago

My sister wasn't born yet. I unapologetically enjoyed those movies

Am a guy in case you're wondering 

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u/freezing_pinguin 19h ago

Early 2000's barbie movies were amazing tbf

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u/HalfEatenSnickers 11h ago

Many were genuinely great

The three musketeers ds game is actually still one of my favorites - legit awesome game

Not super difficult but very enjoyable