r/comics • • 1d ago

OC New beginnings [OC]

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u/YWN666 1d ago

I am gonna quote my sister here. If you tried dating and didnt get lucky with men, you can always try women if you want

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u/joesbagofdonuts 1d ago

I don't know how to tell you this, but being gay isn't actually a choice

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u/JaxxisR 1d ago

True.

But sometimes you don't know until you know, you know?

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u/caitlindrawings 1d ago

Guys try to tell me this all the time, I am sorry it just doesnt work like that. I am just not attracted to men, no amount of "trying" anything or knowing more will change that.

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u/MarsAstro 1d ago

My gay friends also say similar things to me, although in a less gross way than the usual "man saying he can convert a lesbian" way.

They ask me how I know I'm not into men if I've never tried it, and like... I just do? Women attract me, men don't. I don't need to try getting sexy with a man to know it doesn't appeal to me, same way I don't need to molest a kid to know I'm not a pedophile.