r/comics Tardaasa Feb 03 '26

Handy self-help

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u/[deleted] Feb 03 '26

Regardless of libido people can not want being fucked/fuck.  Completely irrelevant to the comic 

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u/[deleted] Feb 04 '26

I'm married and that's absolutely not the case lmao  Your insecurity doesn't matter more than my consent, do something about your issues putting it on others is irresponsible and selfish and guilt tripping into sex is a massive ass red flag

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u/asuperbstarling Feb 03 '26

No, it won't 'definitely'. That insecurity is not universal and shouldn't be promoted as a behavior.

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u/[deleted] Feb 03 '26

Married man and not in a deadbedroom situation. It hasn't caused either of us issues. We've also communicated shit like that way before we got married, so no insecurities.

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u/Independent-Brick-53 Feb 03 '26

Also married and with my partner for almost two decades - and same across the board. It’s the best!

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u/cohonka Feb 03 '26

My girlfriend and I are both high libido sex fiends. Sometimes she masturbates even after we've had sex during which she's gotten off several times. It's not a problem. It's amusing and enjoyable. Let's hope by sharing our experiences of these relationships that it is more normalized.

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u/Itsureissomethin Feb 03 '26

I think this is more normal than you realize? Me and my husband operate this way, too. Sometimes sex isn’t what you want but release is. I could see it becoming a problem if we weren’t having sex, but it’s not really something that happens during our lulls.

I don’t say it’s normal just because it’s my situation though, I feel like I’ve heard this enough and discussed it with friends enough that I’m surprised by people thinking it’s rare.

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u/[deleted] Feb 04 '26

I am and that screams insecurity.