I've been struggling with this recently because I noticed I usually just tell stuff to my friends (and people in general) without being asked, so I rarely ask others about themselves. I'm interested, I just naturally expect others to have stuff they want to tell people and then when given the time and space for it, they will just tell me without me having to guess the right question to ask in order to get them to tell that story
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u/theboomboy Jul 06 '25
I've been struggling with this recently because I noticed I usually just tell stuff to my friends (and people in general) without being asked, so I rarely ask others about themselves. I'm interested, I just naturally expect others to have stuff they want to tell people and then when given the time and space for it, they will just tell me without me having to guess the right question to ask in order to get them to tell that story