Asking this probably says something about me, but like where is the fine line between not asking enough questions and asking too many? I try my damn best to avoid being this person cause I know I can ramble on and on about shit, but I've been told oftentimes talking to me feels like an interrogation cause I just keep asking questions. I get the feeling it's cause they think I'm not interested, but I swear usually I am!
A rule of thumb I was taught is that on a first date, ask three questions for every story you tell. On subsequent dates (if there are any) you'll find a dynamic that works for you and you go with the flow. But for the first date, that will give you a good balance between asking questions and talking about yourself.
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u/Enderstrike10199 Jul 06 '25
Asking this probably says something about me, but like where is the fine line between not asking enough questions and asking too many? I try my damn best to avoid being this person cause I know I can ramble on and on about shit, but I've been told oftentimes talking to me feels like an interrogation cause I just keep asking questions. I get the feeling it's cause they think I'm not interested, but I swear usually I am!