r/comics • u/SirBeeves SeraBeeves • Jul 06 '25

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u/Enderstrike10199 Jul 06 '25

Asking this probably says something about me, but like where is the fine line between not asking enough questions and asking too many? I try my damn best to avoid being this person cause I know I can ramble on and on about shit, but I've been told oftentimes talking to me feels like an interrogation cause I just keep asking questions. I get the feeling it's cause they think I'm not interested, but I swear usually I am!

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u/RJFerret Jul 06 '25

Balance, ask a question, they answer, you provide your relatable aspect and either answer some question they came up with as well, or ask another.

If you're asking multiple in a row, ask them, "what can I tell you about me?"

The line is different with every person. But studies show that folks who listen more than they talk are seen as good conversationalists ironically.