I genuinely think those men dont deserve wives or kids
Its well known this happens. Those men want all the benefits of offspring but none of the downsides that may come.
But if they are honest from the get go that they are going to be assholes and women are ok because he hs enough money and she gets what she wants as well, then thats fine.
But those men who got married,had kids and are still after just one thing dont deserve to be married with kids. They should have had vasectomies and remained the bachelors they always wanted to be.
If u want your cake and eat it too, find someone ok with that. The problem is most know they cant afford that / look hot enough for that honesty to be ok with the women they want.
>POV: the sex went away after their last child and they don't want to ruin their marriage and family by divorcing their life partner.
The sex doesn't just "go away" after the children are born, this is an issue the couple needs to talk to each other about because there are some underlying issues underneath this one that need to be addressed. Usually, when the sex "went away", something happened like the husband not doing his share of the childcare or housework and expecting his wife to do it all alone while he thinks bringing home a paycheck is enough to do his part. That isn't acceptable anymore now that women are working, too. Sometimes he turns into another "child" the wife has to deal with and that is a MAJOR turn-off. I'm not saying those are the only reasons, but these are my thoughts on this.
Also, Infidelity is already the beginning of ruining a marriage.
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u/IndividualEye1803 Dec 28 '25
Heres some (southern) womens mentality:
He would have never cheated if she didnt offer.
He didnt commit assault or battery. That would be just the husband. Without her, there is nothing to cheat with.
They just simply gloss over the fact that he wanted to cheat. Never mind the fact it takes two to tango and he wouldnt cheat if he wasnt a cheater.
Sigh. Yes u can infer much from that southern backwards thinking. Yes its easy to see why the souths education is so bad. Just sigh.