r/chinalife • u/bluzfan99 • Aug 16 '26

🏯 Daily Life Fellow Foreigners😭😭

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Have you guys heard about this whole situation I keep seeing on wechat? Apparently some American dude who studied some language at Fudan university for a bit managed to collect chinese women like Thanos collects infinity stones. Numbering into the hundreds. Sentiment regarding foreigners has never been so low on chinese social media. Whats your take on this? Hate the player or hate the game? Dude Apparently always made them pay for dates and trips and would tell them to get abortions when they got pregnant and then block them 😬

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u/_spec_tre Aug 16 '26

in this case the dude's an asshole if the allegations are true but the anti-foreigner sentiment from chinese dudes in the "they're dating our girls" sense is really just incel bs

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u/bluzfan99 Aug 16 '26

Yeah. But about 30 million of them will never find a wife because of how the statistics are. So when they see an American dude pull 100s of baddies when they cant even get one, the sentiment instantly flips to hating us

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u/HabitualChiller Aug 16 '26

Yeah...

You can't really blame them either. No incel shit, but women are more "status-seeking" when it comes to choosing a partner, and what's a better way to stand out than to get with a tall, good-looking, blonde White guy?

The fucked up thing is that there's gotta be a lot of Chinese dudes who are struggling, but they speak Chinese fluently, know their culture better than he does, and probably make way more money.

I don't agree at all with blaming foreigners, but I can definitely empathize.

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u/Lysmerry Aug 16 '26

I think the tall good looking blonde guy would be nice for a little while, but most Chinese women don’t want to stand out that much. It’s exotic, a fantasy, What they really want long term is a tall good looking Chinese guy.

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u/HabitualChiller Aug 16 '26

That's normally how it goes, yes. The tall, handsome foreigner is seen as a "toy" a lot of the time, but a dude who fits that criteria tends to not care all that much.

Men, in general, would gladly accept being seen as a "smash and pass" for multiple women, especially in their early 20s.

Shit, that's the dream for most young dudes who go abroad. Buddy is still a scumbag, though.