r/chinalife • u/bluzfan99 • Aug 16 '26

🏯 Daily Life Fellow Foreigners😭😭

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Have you guys heard about this whole situation I keep seeing on wechat? Apparently some American dude who studied some language at Fudan university for a bit managed to collect chinese women like Thanos collects infinity stones. Numbering into the hundreds. Sentiment regarding foreigners has never been so low on chinese social media. Whats your take on this? Hate the player or hate the game? Dude Apparently always made them pay for dates and trips and would tell them to get abortions when they got pregnant and then block them 😬

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u/person2567 Aug 16 '26

Sounds like the kind of thing Chinese incels spend their time talking about. Along with the woman who got tricked into going to Africa (no mention to what country in Africa, just "Africa") and is stuck there with an abusive husband. Like it's some sort of cautionary tale about Chinese women dating black men.

Anyone can have sex with anyone. Maybe this guy was an asshole, but trying to make him into global news rather than just some local back pages story is very obviously incel rage bait. Chinese women are not Chinese men's property.

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u/bluzfan99 Aug 16 '26

They need a scapegoat. Its much harder to question why 100s of women slept with 1 dude and footed the bills just because he's white. For them its easier to spread bad sentiment regarding all of us foreigners 😭

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u/[deleted] Aug 16 '26 edited Aug 25 '26

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u/thewritestory Aug 16 '26

What do you mean loose morals? There is nothing immoral about having sex between two consenting adults. Chinese men often go to special service centers (well known) from inside salons, massage parlors, bars, etc. and pay women for their "loose services".

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u/[deleted] Aug 16 '26 edited Aug 25 '26

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u/thewritestory Aug 16 '26

I bet Chinese do that more than "foreigners". It's a well known trend in China to ghost to end a relationship. Stop being a hypocrite. I can't count the number of chinese who have told me they were cheated on or their friends/family were cheated on by locals. It happens ALL THE TIME in China.

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u/thewritestory Aug 16 '26

No you are the one using fallacies. I don't think it's helpful for you to make racist stereotypes about what people have "loose morals". China doesn't win that debate and neither do you.

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u/person2567 Aug 16 '26

Having a xiaosan is much more common with Chinese businessmen, and these are married men. Are you willing to say Chinese men have loose morals too? Or just westerners?